UPDATE: If I hotlist you, it's to let you know that I'm interested in learning more about you. If you'd like to talk, hotlist me back, or something so that I know...then I'll upgrade my account so that we can talk. I'm not gonna spend anymore money on upgrades, unless someone shows an interest, and hotlisting you is the only thing I can do, as a standard member. I figure I've already wasted enough money on this site, why waste anymore, if nobody's gonna respond, anyway. - Thanx. You know...I've been on this site for nearly 10 continuous years. About all I've gotten out of it are a mess of women (supposedly) wanting me to subscribe to their website, or trying to scam me in one way or another. I've actually only met 2 women on here that were real, and nothing ever came from that. So, you ask, why do I stay...I guess you could say I hopelessly optimistic. Scary to say, coming from a perpetual pessimist. But the truth, none the less. I haven't given up hope, yet...so I hope that someone will eventually reward my perserverance...please???

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a friend, a companion and a lover...not necessarily in that order. I'm not looking for love, and, most definately NOT a soulmate (come on, you really think someone will find that here..be realistic). I figure I can find someone here to spend my time with. If love or something else finds me, I'll consider myself lucky, if not, I haven't lost out on anything. Oh, and sorry if this sounds even more shallow...but, if I don't think I'll be able to look at you in the morning..I'm not gonna be interested in anything else...sorry.