Help others get a sense of who you are and what you want, and you'll get more responses! Here are some ideas to get you started: Most of my mates would say I have a (dominant/easy-going/shy/other) personality. When it comes to exercise, I work out about (5 to 7, 3 or 4, 1 or 2) times per week (or never), and expect my sex partners to be at about the same fitness level (or but my partners fitness level is not important to me). I (like/dislike) the pub and club scene. I prefer (to party lots/not to party) when I'm involved in sexual liasons. I like my partners to (tell me what to do/follow my lead) in bed. I love sex, but I'm more interested in (a fling/long-term relationships/getting hitched). In the bedroom, I tend to like (traditional, straight forward/kinky, experimental/other) sex. Some of my favourite positions are... I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another (man/woman) watching. One-on-one sex doesn't really do it for me. I prefer (threesomes/swapping/orgies/other). I'm (not/maybe/definately) up for trying some light bondage or blindfolds.