Athletic man who enjoys the outdoors. Avid cyclist and paddle-boarder. Love good food, wine and conversation. I'm easy going, a bit shy at first with a good sense of humor. Looking for friends in and out of the bedroom

My Ideal Person An ideal person or couple would be someone that shares common interest outside the bed as well. I enjoy people that are easy going and have a good sense of humor. As far as body types my attraction leans toward the athletic fit types but rubenesque types can be sexy too. I'm open minded and experimental for the most part. When it comes to pain, scat, pee, humiliation or extreme bondage you can count me out.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
While at an outdoor BBQ possibly centered around a pool
I'm sitting in a chaise chair chatting with a few people.
One of the women moves over and settles in next to me...the
conversation continues ...after a while I feel her hand
starting to wander around my thigh my waistband of my surftrunks.
I am becoming aroused and having a harder time paying attention
to the conversation....she leans over and whispers i am
going to blow you right here and right now.... I feel her
hand untie my shorts, the sound of velcro pierces the air
....Iam fully erect as she exposes me.... others are discreetly
watching as she goes down on me which arouses me further.......it
progresses from there...use your imagination to complete
the scene

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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