When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. I like to build a strong relationship over time. The philosophy I live by is don't judge, but always stay true to my personal set of values. I get along best with people who can talk about something besides sex or sports. I've reached the point where I can look back and say I've done well... but there's more to do. I've always been good at sitting back and listening to what others have to say. If you contact me remember that I'm looking for a relationship, not just a one-night stand. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. I look forward to finding the right person; I know you're out there!