I'm a very laid back easy going guy who is looking for some nice distractions I'm obviously a little older.. but that may have some benefits! I'm one of those 'nice guys' who has spent a lifetime watching the 'dangerous guys' rush past me and then hurt beautiful women! I'm told by some friends that I over analyze things a bit much instead of just getting on with it, but, when it comes to a lifetime of personal relationships, it's probably saved a few people form getting hurt. I'm a bit of a romantic at heart, love connecting, knowing, being known, touching and being touched, and working together to discover the things that make an encounter oh so enjoyable. I love the idea of expressing the mental and spiritual connection with slow sensuous massage, with the intent of bringing maximum pleasure. I'm perfectly happy enjoying the crowd, being with friends, but also happy in my own space dong my own thing. It'd be nice to share that space with someone who was also happy doing their thing! I'm not even sure that 'AFF' is the right place for me. I read some of the profiles, comments and testimonials , - read between the lines and come to the conclusion that there seems to be a lot of sex happening without a real connection. However, it might be the right place if for no other reason than if you are on this site, intimacy, sex and pleasure are way up there on your wish list!

Mi persona ideal: After the journey that I've been on over the past few years, I must say I'm a little gun shy of attempting to find a 'rest of life' partner.

Ideally someone in a similar situation who would like a 'friend with benefits' would be ideal. - I realise that's mainly a male concept, but there might be someone out there!
I'm totally over the dramatic and high maintenance scenario. I want to be with someone who is happy in their own skin, has a life of their own, wants to be with someone who will respect and care for them, yet not abdicate their own responsibilities to be looked after.

Who knows if it might lead to something permanent, but it would be lovely to find a friend to spend time with, to be out and about with, but who also shared a desire for the more intimate aspects of life. - Or maybe we just have fun! and, if you are far away, we could always meet on cam.

If any of this makes you a bit moist, then get in touch (if I haven't found you first)