I am new to the Raleigh area and I am seeking a sexy fun woman to have a NSA type relationship. I'm well traveled, good conversationist and a over all fun guy to be around. I am a professional photographer who loves what I do, and although I do not post any my work on this site, just snap shots I do excellent boudoir work and with the right friend we can make some really cool stuff! Want me to photograph you? LOL, Let's hang out and see.

My Ideal Person I consider myself a lover of oral and getting a great blow job is one of the best feelings in the world, so loving, so relaxing, such a nice feeling to recieve such pleasure. That being said, there is nothing I like better than going down on a sexy girl.

I love getting women off, and I think the fact that I have been in several LTRs has really helped me gather some pretty good tricks of the trade.


First of all, I tease a woman to death before I go NEAR her clit(not yet anyway). Focus on her tits, neck, ears, stomache, illiac crest, I use my hands as well as my mouth. I love that nook where the leg meets the vagina absolutely sexy! much like the neck. I lick and suck gently not eagerly but teasingly, all around her vagaina, explore the folds, the hole (with my tongue only at this point) I run my tongue down to her knee and back up around the belly button. I'll know that I really have them going when they are arching and trying to grind the air before I even touch their clit.

Once I do begin to lick their clit I start with soft wet long licks from top to bottom, focusing more on the clit as I go along, softly, slowly, circling. It took me a long time to realize that being patient will save me so much work. I do not "flick" or "smack" her clit or vagina, from my experience it is more annoying than anything. I alternate between touching her with my tongue only and using my whole mouth and lips to suck, the variety is key.

If I am doing this right her clit should begin to get harder and poke out a bit, I test her sensitivity by sucking lightly and judging her reaction. Once I have her preference figured out I begin to tease her with my fingers. If I can't tell what she likes, I just ask her if it feels good or not!

Now for the fingers.....

There is the most special spot right inside the hole on the top. I know most guys think it's the g-spot which is a little further inside and is kind of rough and spongy. No, I'm tallking about the really smooth part at the very opening, it's really small and soft an sensitive and perfect for teasing. Since I have discovered this spot every woman since then has commented that I knew where it was. I play with it by rubbing it and aplying pressure until she is trying to **** my finger deeper inside her, again teasing her until she needs it. Once I have her practically begging to be penetrated, I slide my finger deep and hold it there, letting her fuck my hand. As a side note, I only use one finger, if you get the girl excited enough one finger is all you need, plus it will make my cock feel even bigger once inside you.

I insert my finger all the way, mind you I am still using my tongue on her clit and surrounding area, alternating speed and pressure based on her reactions. I begin to finger her slowly and rythmically, gauging her response. If I am doing everything right, I will feel her clit begin to get puffy and full especially on the top near the opening. Here we go! The G-Spot is coming to life! I then angle my finger to apply pressure to this area, it IS NOT about the in and out! It's about the pressure. Sometimes I keep my fingers stiff and still and let her grind her G-Spot on my finger, amazing orgasms this way! Especially if she can stand having her clit sucked.

Once I have her at this point, she is all mine, I have her right where I want her, alternate sucking and licking her clit while I massage her g spot, again, make her want it, beg for it,I am patient not aggressive. When she cums I do not stop, let her finish which can take longer than you think....When she is done, I simply start over.....light touches and licks and stay away from the clit until she is ready. If you are anything like the girls I've been with, I could make you cum again and again, and the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th orgasms are much easier to make happen.

If you are interested drop me a reply back....