Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. On Sunday afternoons I like to have a picnic with someone special. For me a perfect date is dinner and a movie. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I look forward to finding the right person; I know you're out there! I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy.