I am tired of meeting and being messaged by assholes and people that cannot read or don't bother to read profiles. I know what I'm looking for and if you read my profile and you are not looking for the same move on. Don't waste my time or your own. First of I'm BLACK so if that's an issue no need for you to read any further. I'm not looking for some random hook up with someone I don't know or to be your booty call while your visiting in town. I'm looking for someone to chat with if things go well from there I'm open to that. I'm also not looking to fulfill any fantasies you have about being with a black woman. I'm fun loving,intelligent,have a great sense of humor, laid back, love football and hot wings. I am married and my partner is aware of my presence on this site. We are both polyamorous (definition below). I love sex and of course head but who doesn't. I'm not into having unprotected sex being that there is so much stuff you can catch out there so don't ask. So if you don't feel the same I suggest you look for someone more passive. BTW I'm not looking for couples not into threesomes they do nothing for me. I'm also a Fem Dom and skilled in impact, sensory deprivation, and many other kinks. Also if your looking for a fuck buddy I suggest you move on because that's not my thing. I'm not looking for random hook ups. I enjoy having conversations 😌 so if I look at your profile and you don't have anything to say about yourself I'm going to assume that your conversation is not what I'm looking for and I won't message back. Looks may get my attention but intellect will keep it. If you are partnered then it must ethical. I do not connect with anyone that operates in don't ask don't tell and I do not condone or will I assist in cheating. So if you are seeking discretion I am not your person. I don't operate in taking someone's consent away. Looking forward to conversing soon. I've added some terms and definitions for those who are getting their mingle on. Sapiosexual: finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing. Ethical Nonmonogamy (ENM): is the practice of being romantically involved with multiple people who are all aware of and agree to this relationship structure. Polyamorous: Having the option to have outside connections or relationships with multiple partners Open Relationship: Having the option to have sex with others outside of your primary relationship. Fuck Buddy: Someone that you use strictly for sex no public encounters. Friends with Benefits: Someone who you can develop a friendship with and also have sex with. Example: Hanging out maybe grabbing drinks, catching the game or UFC, or just hanging out before getting to dessert. NO COMMITMENT Fem Dom: A woman (or action in which a woman) dominates sexual interaction with her mate. See also dominatrix. Dominatrix: a woman who practices BDSM in everyday life; a woman who controls her partner mentally and physically, usually in a sexual way but not always the case Submissive: ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. BDSM: An overlapping abbreviation of Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM). Kinky: marked by unconventional sexual preferences or behavior, as fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like.

My Ideal Person Intelligent and has respect for themselves as well as others I don't want a child I want an adult who knows how to carry themselves in such a way. This may be a swingers site but that doesn't mean you should act any kind of way. Someone who is looking for the same to have fun either drinking, playing pool, watching the game, and to hang out with and see where things naturally lead. That could be nothing to FWB to something more. I'm not going to force anything that isn't there because we are too old to aligning with things that don't compliment where we are in life.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Journey

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Cross Dressing, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Brad Pitt those blue eyes just make my clothes melt off

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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