i'm a musician - i do that for a living as well as being a nude life drawing model, a guitar teacher and a babysitter for my roommates! - i value my autonomy and haven't had a "real" job (i.e. one with a boss) in almost 25 years - i'm an atheist - the hardcore, intractable, unapologetic, unrepentant sinner variety of non-deist - i love to travel - i've been to 39 countries, all 50 states, and every province and territory in Canada save Nunavut - i lived in Europe several years, India and Nepal for 2 years, Northern Canada (Yukon) for almost 4 years and now live in Alaska - i love the north - i read voraciously and incessantly - i guess my favorite book is the dictionary - i read it almost daily - i'm very politically active - a devout Democrat for practical reasons but secretly hold wildly leftist bleeding-heart liberal views close to my heart - i always vote and am a card carrying member of NOW - i was married (only once) and i'm happily divorced and have no (that i know of) - I had a vasectomy 10 years ago so i am very committed to never having of my own - I'm heterosexual, disease free (just had ALL the tests done), and have had MANY sexual partners - well into the hundreds - not bragging but thats the facts and if thats an issue then i'm not the guy your looking for - i was in an open poly-amorous relationship with a bisexual female for 8 years and lived with her and another girl for almost a year - well... that should be enough to scare you off or get you interested - either way, i'm happy - if you want to know more, check the other categories for my other profiles or better yet, just ask - oh yeah, one last thing - NO proselytizing please! - later...

My Ideal Person OK - more scary (or interesting) stuff - i have very long hair, clean-shaven, not going bald, "thinning" or gray, i'm 5' 7", weigh 140 and honestly, if you weigh more than me or are much taller than me i'm just not gonna be interested - you dont have to be a raging beauty but petite, fit and attractive is good - most of my life i was very promiscuous and cheated on every girlfriend (and wife) i ever had until the last 10 years or so - my solution to that issue (and it was always an issue) is that i no longer promise monogamy - i'm honest before the fact (not after) and there is almost always some way to work things out!all that said, all i am really interested in is a mostly monogamous relationship (if she's in bed with both of us, that's mostly monogamous, right?) with lots of affection and genuine intimacy - one more thing - i have never dated anyone over 30 - most of my girlfriends in the last 10-15 years have been in their late teens or early to mid 20's - my last girlfriend 1 year ago was 23 - we were together for about a year and a half and played music together in Canada - again, thats probably enough to send you running and screaming or really pique your interest - if it's the latter, let me know - it will be fun to at least say hi - see ya later!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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