Hey there, thanks for checking out our profile... I am happily married to my sub and soul mate Serentan. So yes we're Poly and yes we're kinky. We're looking for that mythical unicorn but open to other relationships. We've triad dated and been involved in a few V and W style relationships but only recently felt ready to really embrace Poly. Rules I try to live by, both in Kink and generally:- 1) Do No Harm And not just because I like medical play on occasion ;-). By Harm I mean no long term lasting physical or mental damage. I've considered branding and so on and that might cross this line...but as a rule...no. Hurt is another matter and with consent I'm fine with this. Sometimes the line gets crossed without intent. Then its my job to minimise it. Yes, I'm a Daddy Dom I guess. I always associated the term with age play, which is something I moderately dislike, but if the label fits.... 2) Never in Anger Hangover from my Re-enactment/Western Martial arts. Dont Dom Angry (or Drunk come to that). I do however fake it really well for you Brats. 3) Real Life comes first Mostly aimed at the online folks but also applies to when there's a choice between 'lifestyle' events/moments or other events. I've made some real friends in this lifestyle and allied ones so its not a case of not valuing that. I've turned out in the middle of the night to collect a friend and a stranger they rescued from a bad scene from A&E when things have gone wrong for them. If someone has to cancel a scene, leave early or otherwise bail due to events in Real Life....thats expected and fine. Shit happens. If your life is so full of Real Life drama/events that we cant match schedules then thats sad but thems the breaks.