Firstly, come on guys, respect my age limit - please! I'm not into the daddy/ thing, so just because I'm a borderline middle aged gweilo, doesn't mean I'm a meal ticket or a means to a visa out of here (besides, I'm not old enough or rich enough to qualify for the "daddy" tag). Ain't gonna happen boys! Also, I may have groomed my body hair, but that doesn't automatically tag me as a bear, or into bears or leather... yuck... I take care of my body and work out regularly (at my age, its imperative). I'm not about to jump into a full on relationship with anyone, having just come out of a 4 year relationship with someone ,so please don't ask. I am looking for friends to hang out with - or friends with benefits is fine too ;-). I don't speak Chinese (and have wasted enough time trying to learn it). If you find that offensive, suck it up - I have no talent for languages and at times can barely manage English.

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