I came out of a long relationship at the end of last year and am beginning to find my feet. It's a horrible cliche I know, but I'm trying to find out about myself - having spent so long as part of a couple it's time for me to explore my own needs and desires and find out what makes me tick. Of course a big part of this is sex, so I can't do this alone - not all the time, anyway ;) Up to now I've always had a fairly vanilla sex life but I think I've always known I wanted something else, but could never really express or explore it. That doesn't mean to say I'm looking to get into BDSM (that really doesn't interest me at the moment), but I'd definitely like to explore something a bit more uninhibited, down and dirty than I'm used to. I've got a bit of a fantasy about outdoor sex so I'd love to try that and also, being a photographer by day (and sometimes by night, depending on the assignment), erotic photography is high on my sexual bucket list. To be honest, the idea of being led into a variety of new experiences really turns me on - I wouldn't say I'm submissive as such, but I'm certainly happy to be taught if someone's willing :) Because this is a bit new to me I can be quite shy to begin with. I'm clean, intelligent, articulate and very respectful. I'm also pretty shoddy at selling myself, and absolutely awful at first messages - so if you can overlook that I'll owe you one (in whatever suitable currency we can agree). I've been told I have a very sexy voice, although I may just have had a cold at the time. I'm funny (if you like that sort of thing).

My Ideal Person An Independent, sensual woman with a strong sex drive. I’m particularly turned on by women who know what they like in bed and aren’t afraid to ask. Physically, I adore curvy women - more to squeeze and caress makes me a happy bunny.

Although I’m primarily interested in meeting individuals I may be interested in meeting couples, either FF or MF. This is well out of my comfort zone, but then isn’t that the point?

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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