We have been in the lifestyle for a while and have enjoyed having a 3rd guy involved in pleasing the wife as well as soft and full swaps with couples. We would like to think we are sane and mostly normal people who actually meet and who just like a little adventure once in a while. We are looking for a new single male to be our regular 3rd. Our longtime guy recently left so we are back in the market. The right single guy needs to be able to chat and build up anticipation between meetings, be in decent shape but no need to be a gym rat, be polite and respectful, good stamina and at least a little above average size (bigger is better lol) and lastly he needs to be bi comfortable (orally at a minimum) We just renewed our gold status so if we have chatted in the past or you messaged us and we didn't respond reach back out now because the door maybe be open for you. Smoking weed is fine but no cigarettes we can't stand the smell. We are looking for couples we can be friends with and meet for drinks, dancing maybe hiking and enjoy their company while also being flirty, sexy and maybe just a little slutty lol. We do not want to waste a lot of time up front texting and chatting if there is not an in person connection so we would rather find a night meet for a drink and then if we all click start chatting and try to find a deeper connection before we meet again to play.

My Ideal Person The first thing is the ability to be positive and happy with a sense of humor. Life is too short to spend time with people who are negative or too serious. We are here to have fun and want you to be having fun with us. We aren't here for quick hook ups or anonymous sex been there done that. We are old school and want to like someone before we fuck them so you need to be able to laugh have fun and don't take life too seriously.
Drop us a message and lets see where it goes. If you made it this far down congrats! Drop us a message and lets see where it goes.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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