The philosophy I live by is "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with." I've reached the point where I have the means and the will to sample the varieties of life. When I'm out driving I like to see the sights along the backroads. For me a perfect date is one where we head out with a plan, but we go where the night takes us. I'm in the mood for a relationship I don't have to define, but it still feels good. When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. I'm not changing my life, I'm just turning up the volume on my leisure time. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you. I look forward to whatever life brings.