We are a happily married couple of 8 years. We're both intelligent, educated, healthy people. We both have stable careers in the medical field. Although we may look like your average, clean-cut, professional, suburban couple to outsiders...when the scrubs come off he changes into his faded jeans and Queensryche t-shirt and I change into a sexy dress and high heels and we head out into the night to play. We love to drink beer, play pool, go to rock concerts, go tubing, and just generally hang out with friends and have a good time. Occasionally, after a few shots of Jager, I've been known to make out with another tipsy girl nearby. We've had a few threesomes- usually it's been with girls who are young and just curious. One time we shared a table with a couple at an underground jazz bar and after the scotch and music kicked in, us girls couldn't help but start making out and we all ended up back at the hotel room...the guys watching us as we made love in front of them like two nymphos. It was fun! It was sexy, it felt good, and I'd love to do it again. Another time, while I was in art school and my husband was deployed, I threw an all-girls pool party at the house to celebrate finals being over with. It started out innocently enough, but then someone suggested that we try body painting each other with fluorescent paint, and another girl asked me what a vibrator felt like because she had never used one. One thing led to another and the next day I woke up with 5 naked, paint-covered college girls in my bed, all sleeping soundly. Good times, haha!

My Ideal Person My dream situation would be to meet a woman who is a lot like me. Educated, professional, but fun and adventurous. Someone soft and feminine, with long hair and tan skin. Someone who likes sex, but isn't a slut. It's not all about the body or the physical things, after all. It would be amazing just to dress up and go out to dinner together. To hold hands in public. To turn heads. To put on a show but at the same time share our own secret bond. I would love love love to cuddle, make out, swap massages, or go dancing together. All the fun stuff. All the sexy stuff. All the romantic stuff.

I've shared my desires with my husband, who is very open-minded. He would love to be in on the action too (who wouldn't?), but says he's happy just to watch, or just to be intimate with me. While we would be open to the idea of another couple, us girls would be the only ones swinging. I will not be intimate with any man but my husband.

Of course, here I am assuming you're in a "straight" relationship. Silly me! If you are two women looking for a third, that would be awesome too!

If we found a girl that clicked with us both, we'd definitely be open to the idea of "a couple with a girlfriend," if that makes sense. In other words, something long-term and semi-monogamous. But if you aren't into that, that's ok too.

By the way, if you're just bi-curious, or inexperienced, I don't mind- I would love to be your first!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Fun personality

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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