We have been on and off from this site for several years. Happy committed couple with zero drama. We have had more success playing alone but always with full disclosure. At the current moment she has not been so interested in playing but still discourages him to go find a regular playmate. We are kind of in a lull sexually but still deeply committed to each other. Some of the hottest things about the lifestyle is hearing about how hot her date was, many times she got off, and with the right partner wondering if she is full of his cum.... She enjoys hearing how awesome my blow job was or how many times I got off with my date. Not saying that we couldn't all play together, but it is rather difficult to find the right chemistry for both parties of both couples, so easier to play separately , As to group play she absolutely loves being pleased by two guys and can go for hours and many orgasms before the guys are allowed to be "done". This is our favorite play time and everyone usually leaves totally worn out and satisfied. We have many more fantasies and are pretty "open" to new ideas but don't really want to post everything here. As a side note, we have very busy lifestyles with , so please be patient. Also we are well known locally so being discrete is a must!!!

My Ideal Person ideally we would like to each find a regular play partner. Neither of us are interested in making a lot of notches on the bed post. We would rather find regular steady friends with benefits. With the right steady partners boundaries can open up, trust builds, and the sex just gets better and open to more exploring. We are open to finding that "right" couple for this to happen with or each of us finding our own "3rd". Single men, we can find you on our own, so if you don't have something to bring to the party please move on.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We have discussed having a private party with three to maybe
five couples. Every couple is assigned their own room.
You are allowed twenty minutes of play time before an alarm
goes off. At that time all of guys rotate one room down. Repeat
until you are back to your first partner. From there, well,
could be one really long night....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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