A lot of people who know me say that I'm a caring, kind person who is always willing to listen and comfort you when your having a bad day or even if your just not confident about something. Not overly fit, but willing and able to go for long periods of time. More like average fitness level, and I prefer girls who may be a little overweight to girls who are skinny. I really am able to accept any girl for their individual beauty. I do enjoy bar scenes and clubs, but I also enjoy a night in sitting together and watching a movie quietly. I am looking for likely a longer term relationship, but shorter ones are also acceptable, I am more looking to meet new people and learn what each girl has specific to them. I personally love it when a girl takes control and wants me in bed, it is likely my biggest turn on. I'm willing to try new things such as bondage and blindfolding, but I am personally not into receiving pain as a turn on. Nails on my back and light pain: sure, but slapping my face: not so much. If the girl wants it, sure, but it isn't an interest of mine. I prefer one on one sex, but in the future a threesome with another girl or even an orgy is a possibility I could see myself trying.