First impression I give is of a quiet, funny guy. I get funnier and a lot less quiet as you get to know me, but there's always a certain amount of shyness. A tad overweight but I carry it well. I'm a victim of childhood sexual abuse and now (30 years later) I'm looking to make up for lost time. I've had 3 partners in my life and although I think about sex all the time, I haven't had much personal experience. So, quite honestly, I have no idea what I like when it comes to sexual encounters... though I prefer oral sex (giving & receiving) over conventional sex (is there such a thing?).

My Ideal Person I'm straight and bi-curious. I'd prefer hooking up with a woman but there have been guys that I can picture myself with. I consider myself extremely open-minded and more than willing to explore. On the surface I'm a mid-40's guy but inside I'm mid-teens and eager to learn. I'm looking for someone who is also a kid at heart, willing to learn his/her boundaries. I'm also looking to make up for 30 years of shying away from sex - I'd like to make up for it in a weekend and if it doesn't work out then I'll just try again The little bit I know about romance & sensuality I've learned from movies so if you're looking for the classic, romantic, leading man (with the malleability of a kid), look no further.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Apollo 440, Moby, Van Morrison, Rickie Lee Jones

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I guess this is limited to roll-playing... my all-time fave fantasy is being a virgin with a virgin; trying anything & everything for the first time.
Next to that I guess being tied to the bed & blindfolded and being "treated" orally, manually (and otherwise) by multiple partners for hours. Follow that up with a roll reversal.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
When it comes to celebs, most of my fantasies involve living out something I've seen them do in the movies. Jumping up & down, naked, on a motel room bed with Heather Graham (Hope Springs). Taking a bath with Charlize Theron (Head in the Clouds). Having Natalie Portman strip for me (Closer)...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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