I'm always looking for pers I can admire by their intelligence. I'm sick and tired of men talking to me just because they want to jack off. I've been through that movie and I know the cut-scenes by heart. When I say intelligent I don't mean someone to lecture me on art or philosophy. Those I like to appreciate with my own eyes and I know what I like. I’m very curious about life and I’ve tried a lot of things but nothing compares to looking into someone’s eyes and feeling something deep inside like a cloud of warm bubbles . I’ve tasted that also (and, at the end, all I got was the feeling that I was stupid ) but I don’t want to give up the idea. I really believe some people have truths that last for more than one day, truths that aren’t just the mind game of the moment, a make believe joke to destroy you at the end. I know life changes a lot but I’m trying to find someone who can be true for more than one hour, who can “walk the talk”, who can be there as a companion and not as a traveller to a far away island just to enjoy a swim at the beach. As to sex, and having in mind that this is a sex site, I think it is one of the most important things in a relationship and if that doesn’t work it’s no use to go on trying to make the rest fit on…Also, I’m willing to try new things together with someone else but most of them won’t be new to me. If you’re looking for a candid girl curious about everything and able to give it a try… well… I can give it a try but that’s a very old movie for me. My goals are far beyond that. Also, I’ve dated many younger men. I already now the fantasy of the “mature woman”, the “I’ll take you to the sky” story, the “Let’s enjoy life for the pleasure of the moment” novel. If you are much younger than me, try to find a different story. I’m older now… my pleasure moments take longer too. As a complement of this I’m not interested in photos of dicks, either erect, big, thick, circumcised, whatever. Dicks are dicks, they have their role and should perform it well but the image of it doesn’t tell a bit of what they’re worth and I certainly prefer a sweet smile and a tender look if you are using space in my mailbox . Finally and if you’re still reading (I’m really hoping that the length of the text puts many guys away) I want to say that, although this is a sex site, relationships aren’t only based on “mutual enjoyment” as someone once told me. Relationships are based on being there when it’s needed and even if it’s only sex, at least let it be something besides a circus show just for fun. For me life is like a theme park and the attractions are the relationships we build… the Merry-go-round stands for those acquaintances who aren’t more than that and the Roller coasters are the intense ones, those that really leave a mark on your mind. I know most people won’t ever get into a Roller coaster. Do you know Hulk at Universal Studios, Florida? I’ve been there 35 times in a row…

Min Idealperson I prefer taller and fit men because I also like to keep fit, but if you have a brain and can use it, if you're not the re-edition of Quasimodo, if you can accept ideas, if you can listen without trying to present solutions that weren't asked for, then the package is probably complete. I don't need someone to pay bills as I won't also pay anyone's bills but I would prefer you were a professional person good at his job.