Let’s start with things I’m [I]not[/I]. I’m [I]not[/I] a pretender that must have his fragile ego fed with such trivia as capitalizing my pronouns and strutting about like some bantam rooster trying to impress submissives. These are the idiots whose concept of a Dom is summed up in the sentence, “Get on your knees, slut, and suck my cock.” I’m [I]not[/I] a sadist. People who enjoy inflicting arbitrary and random pain are psychopaths, not Doms. I’m excluding spankings and those grey areas on the line between pleasure and pain such as nipple clamps. I’m referring to mentally unstable men, always misogynists, always possessing low self-esteem, who brutally use whips, needles and other implements solely designed to inflict pain. This site is rife with them. So, if you’re a true pain slut – although I don’t think any exist except in fantasies – I’m not for you. I don’t demand respect. Respect, like trust, is earned, not commanded. Submission is a gift and should be cherished as such. While chatting on line, I’ll seem laid back, easy to talk to with a good wit and sense of humor. I will cyber with you, but the primary purpose is to give you an idea of what the real thing would be like – to know in general what to expect. I’m the ultimate Alpha male, not just in the bedroom but in business. Yet I enjoy equality with woman in social settings. I enjoy taking an intelligent woman to a fine restaurant and dancing. I am versatile and can discuss in depth everything from Einstein’s general theory of relativity and quantum mechanics to philosophy and theology. But once behind closed doors, I become the Dom, taking control. You can let go of your day-to-day pressures and boredoms and leave everything to me. For those hours, you are mine. My goal and my satisfaction come from having control of you for the hours we are together. I want to make you come alive, make your senses electric, make you writhe and moan, craving sexual release – which I may or may not give. I will take you to the edge, linger there for awhile, then back off, only to repeat the process in different ways over and over. I want to make your toes curl, your back arch with desire until you want to beg for orgasm. I will always respect your limits and you will always have a “safe word” you can use if you think things are a bit much for you. This is what a Dom is to me. If you agree, then we should chat with the goal of ultimately meeting.

My Ideal Person Looks and body type are not my prime concerns - intelligence is. Mature women, in the 45 + age range are my favorites. They have the maturity and wisdom to understand what life is really about and typically are the best submissives.

A LTR with the right person is a definite possibility!