I am a new transplant to Tacoma, and while I'm not looking for a relationship, I do thrive on affection and companionship. I regularly date and have relationships with men, and have a little experience with women; I identify as a pan-sexual and am more attracted to a personality vs. the sex of a person, but I most often end up having relationships with men... ;) Consequently, I would love to find a woman who doesn't mind taking a teaching role now and then. :) I am attractive, outgoing, intelligent, funny, and personable, and am looking for similar qualities in someone else. I will likely only be in the area for another couple of months, but it's up in the air, and a long story that I don't really feel like going into. My life is serious, and I'm trying to find someone to help make it less so.... I could use some tension release and fun!

My Ideal Person Someone who avoids drama and lies, is tolerant of others, doesn't drink (around me, at least), loves art, and values the beauty of flaws in others. Someone who loves to do their own thing but also likes going on adventures for the fun of it. Someone in touch with their sexuality and non-judgmental approach to the sexuality of others.

Hate to sound shallow, but physical aesthetics are important to me. I'm not after any supermodels, here, but I would like to meet people I don't mind looking at.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being suspended by the wrists, whipped across the back,
butt, and legs, while having my clitoris, vagina, and breasts/nipples
stimulated sporadically; being penetrated roughly throughout
the process until I beg to cum. <br><br>
Recently I've been thinking quite a bit about being
in a submissive position, perhaps on all fours, being examined
in a medical setting; there is a definite sexual element
to the examination, ending with fucking/clitoral stimuli
(e.g. hitachi/tongue/etc)/anal stimuli (plug, etc)
and then being shallowly cut on the fatty area of my sides
as I approach and experience orgasm.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, light blood play (medical & vampiristic), nylon/pantyhose encasement

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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