I'm an easy-going guy. I am the type of guy who rolls with the punches, and takes life as it happens. I am happy sitting in a bar, listening to music while sipping on a beer, or sitting at home, watching a movie. Or, we could be out and about, doing just about anything, and I'd be happy. I love to cook for people, and being a schoo-trained chef, I'm not too bad at it. I also love to give massages, and generally spoil my lover. I am very open-minded when it comes to sex, love, and relationships. As my life has unfolded, I've learned it's often best not to define a relationship, but to give it the room to grow. If it's a relationship with a future, it will happen of its own accord. If it's not meant to be, well, que sera sera.

My Ideal Person The biggest thing I look for in a woman is an open mind. She should understand that the most important sex organ is the brain, and that without mental stimulation, there can not truly be a passionate spark between lovers.

She should be mature, but still able to let her hair down and let out her inner child. She should be able to accept the fact that I am sometimes busy, as I'm sure she is as well. Therefore, she should be as accepting of my occassional need for space as I will be of hers. She should enjoy having a man cook for her, give her a massage, open a door for her, and just generally treat her like a princess. She should be drug and disease free, and while a little drama is understandable (who doesn't have some baggage, right?), she should not be a drama queen.