I like my partners to (tell me what to do/follow my lead) in bed. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. For me a perfect Friday night is hanging out with friends. When I'm at home alone, I like to zone out and decompress from the day's stress. For me a perfect date is a long evening of fun, no-strings sex. I like my partners to be open to anything.