We are a Happily Married Couple in the Asheville area, age 39 and 40 and we're Looking for the same for good times and possibly more... Please be clean and disease free. Light smoke and drink Ok, but we're not party animals. Wife is Bi, and pleasantly shy (at first lol). Husband is totally straight. Although we do OCCASIONALLY swing with Single Males, we're not interested in being contacted by them. If we see your profile and are interested, we will contact you first. Hope that doesn't sound too harsh, but you know how it is :-) We've heard of another couple on here though, WNCCuckoldcpl that might be interested ;-) No WEIRDOs, water sports, or pain, and we would prefer swinging with a 'Friends First' approach. We have had a few encounters but still kinda new to this, and would like to meet and have dinner and hang out. We just can't get into the whole meet at a motel and strip thing, and we have alot more fun with people we can connect with. We are also VERY into making our own Home Movies and yes we know what discreet means as well, it is expected for all involved. If we take pics or vids, all involved will get a copy and privacy will be respected. We have s and schedules so time is hard to arrange sometimes but we get out every now and then :-) We always end up talking to too many people at once so if you don't hear from us at first, it doesn't mean we're not interested, we're just real people with real lives and we don't want to just jump in the bed with strangers. Patience is a virtue here on AFF. We are smokers, however we are mindful of those who aren't so, no we won't use your carpet for an ashtray lol. Jes has the occasinal Beer, Bec doesn't drink at all (although she has had the sporadic Frozen Fuzzy Navel). We are pretty laid back and into the usual stuff, we enjoy full swap, Girl on Girl is fine, MMF, or just an all out foursome. Jes is straight, so please, no surprises 'down there' lol. We probably aren't interested in Soft Swinging or watching, we enjoy being with others and the soft stuff just isn't our cup of tea. We're not into bondage, food, pain, watersports, or the fetish thing, or anything that requires scrubbing afterwards lol. Pics are an absolute must! We like to see who we are talking to, if you are worried about someone seeing you then you shouldn't be on the net lol. If you are interested, drop us a line and lets see what happens!

My Ideal Person Preferably a couple in our age range, and prefer someone we can be friends with first. Physical attraction a plus, friendship a must. We would be keenly interested in a Bi-Female as well. We aren't Ken and Barbie, but physical attraction is important, hey it's sex, you know?
We'd also be interested in finding a couple who would 'date' us, other hubby takes bec out and jes takes the other wife out.. hope that makes sense. We're also most open to full swap, same room... would like to try seperate room sometime as well. We're pretty much wide open with other couples as far as preferences, just be patient and willing to get to know us first, that goes a long way with us.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
meeting that perfect couple and having a long weekend somewhere quiet!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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