Okay, I'm changing a bunch of stuff here. I'm a nice single man who enjoys lots of fun sex and wants to meet a nice woman who has the same needs. That is, they like sex and need it to be part of their life and want somebody who feels the same, and might enjoy other activities as well. The above is the ideal circumstance for me. However, I enjoy recreational sex with no strings with couples and single women. I am experienced in casual play at parties and larger groups, and am also experienced in MFM in play. I'm not camera-shy, and in fact get off on it, if hubby likes to watch/film/join. I love casual nudity. I like my body and I like to be around people who feel the same about theirs, regardless of whether or not it is "perfect". I like giving massages, cuddling and pillow talk both before and after play. I haven't been with a woman who likes to cuddle in a very long time; I'm good at it and I miss it. I like women of all body types and ages, although my preference is for a ht/wt proportionate woman about my own age, give or take ten years or so. (BBW's with big breasts, fat pussies and big rears that need attention really turn me on, too.) Women who are shorter than I am are a true turn on. Ideally, we would enjoy each other's company in addition to having great sex. I would love to find a friend for dancing, going to movies, especially vintage ones in SF or the East Bay, and I'd love a companion who wants to get away for weekend or midweek jaunts. I'm not quite a bohemian, but prefer stuff that isn't quite mainstream. I live in the 'burbs, but I'd rather see an art film in a revival house than "Shit Blows Up" part IV. I'd much rather go to a smaller night club where I'm likely to meet a band member hanging out between sets than pay $250 to sit in a nosebleed seat to see someone famous, although I'm not opposed to doing that on occasion. I have a fair degree of musical literacy, although I don't play an instrument. If you do, I'd love it. I even like to hear someone practice. I like to read -- right now more than anything else for leisure activity -- mostly biography and history, and some fiction. I'm not a serious gambler, but I enjoy going up to Tahoe or Reno once in awhile. I'm open to camping, hiking and walking, touring historical sites, that sort of thing. In my younger days I enjoyed travelling by rail, and it's a kick. I like long drives, too. I'm a casual dresser (Levis, Cons and casual shirts), but not a slob. Not into excessive tats or piercings, and really don't understand women my age who get them. I get most of my exercise by doing physical labor, but that is the only trait I have in common with Puritans... ;-) I am a rationalist, and not into pseudosciences like Astrology or parapsychology. Materialism bores me, and so does a lot of high tech. I love all animals. I like well-behaved dogs, but I ADORE CATS. :) Whether or not we end up in an LTR that is open or closed, or we decide to swing together with a pledge of monogamy -- which I've done in the past and enjoyed -- is something we will work out together. I'm a social drinker. I am open to using weed, which I consider a GREAT aphrodisiac/herbal supplement, but that is the only drug use I condone. PRIMARILY I am looking for ONE good friend who likes being with me both in bed and out. I am open to an LTR, but the vibe has to be good for both of us or it's no fun. I am a very, very relaxed about any sexual practices -- if it's not my thing, I'll just say so, with no putdowns or bad vibes. Masturbation -- both watching and doing it are great, too. I am financially stable, retired, have (almost) all of my teeth, and have a brand new car with nobody to ride around in it besides me. I live alone and can entertain when we get to know one another better. Get to know me; we could have a blast! :)

My Ideal Person No individual characteristics on this list are deal-breakers.This is just my IDEAL person. She is:
Open to an LTR;
5'6" or less;
HWP proportional or curvy/busty with sensitive nipples;
Bi or Bi-curious;
Within 10 years of my age;
Lives in the East Bay or is about 30 minutes or less travel time;
Is a musician or enjoys all kinds of music;
Is reasonably well-educated;
Leans to the left politically;
Is a nurse, med/vet assistant, librarian or bookkeeper/accountant;
Is a brunette and is of Eastern European or Mediteranean descent.

Heavily tatted, pierced and SMOKERS need not apply. I detest Donald Trump and his minions; if you are a Rush ditto-head I'm not interested.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Elvis, Buddy Holly, Beatles, Byrds, Zappa, Duke Ellington,
JudyGarland, any 20-40s hot Jazz

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I love the looks of some of the hot women from the Golden Age
of Hollywood.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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