Here we go: I'll put a picture on shortly so you can see I'm not totally monstrous. Tall, slim, dark, all own hair and teeth (and not in a jam jar). Look fairly fit, but frankly it's deceptive. I should try harder. I like good wine, good food, intelligent films/books, and a dry, slightly twisted sense of humour. If you prefer Michael MacIntyre to Stewart Lee, we can probably never be best friends. I am sane, solvent, employed, mobile. If you're wavering about communicating, please just go ahead. I will answer all (any?) messages in a friendly way. I know this is a sex site, but I much prefer an emotional connection rather than superficial attraction when it comes to finding a mate. I am quite happy with NSA but am not looking for one-offs as in my experience sex gets better over time. I adore foreplay, building deliciously slowly from kissing, barely touching, teasing and softly whispering all the different ways I intend to bring pleasure to your gorgeous body. There’s no rush, we have plenty of time. I love to explore every part of you, gradually undressing you and revealing all your beautiful curves. I will pause to pay particular attention to every newly exposed inch of flesh, kissing and stroking you with my fingertips. I don’t want you to do anything but relinquish yourself to my touch and my probing tongue, covering you completely with soft gentle kisses, teasing you there and there, almost but not quite touching you where you want me to, not yet at least... I will read your profile carefully and the way you express yourself will interest me much more than what you look like or your "preferences" (though if you are a girl who likes to receive prolonged oral, and to be with someone whose chief pleasure is to give pleasure, then you could possibly do worse than say hello). Idler

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone with a sense of humour (obligatory), intelligence (desirable), discernment and her own considered opinions. I love a feisty girl and a well-argued debate, even if we strongly disagree.

A good physique is nice, not a must-have, but I am very attracted to women who know what they like and aren't too inhibited to talk about it (or at least communicate in some other way).

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, open to lots more

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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