To begin with, i feel i must be honest with you. I Need for you to have an open mind and an open heart, and I will need for you to be willing to accept me as i am: to like me for all the flaws and quirks that i have, as well as for all of the good qualities that i have. Starting with what I said about my body type: i said i have a little extra padding; i am not overly overweight with extreme folds of skin grossly, vulgar dangling down to my knees (i believe that that's what they call the muffintop); i do have a slightly visible "spare tire," though (my height is 5'5", so my average weight should be about 150-155lbs; but when i weighed in at my last doctor's visit, my pcp weighed me in at 198 lbs). That's not too bad, though, at least i don't think so, i hope you won't think it's. too bad, either. Another flaw about me is that i have a hairy chest and body, flaw IM really not too happy about. Then there's the fact that ibm baldheaded. That's not too bad: at times - although i should do it more often - i shave off all my hair and go with the retro smooth bowling ball head style. :-) It's funny how all my hair decided to pack up and head South on a permanent vacation and settle down on my lower body. ;-) you'll have to like men with bald heads, hairy chests, and "spare tires" on their tummies: AND you'll have to like me and accept me as i am. My opening title says that i have never had sex before, so i don't know what to do. (to be continued)