Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. I'm in the mood for a real, substantive relationship. When I go out, I might hang out at the bookstore, or just go wherever. I want to find a friend who's also friendly on a physical level. I like to take things slow and ease my way into conversations. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy. I'm not changing my life, because things are great the way they are. I look forward to finding the right person; I know you're out there!