loyally married, but in a sexless vanilla marriage. Seeking a woman in the same situation who needs periodic, on-going rendezvous for mutual pleasures and adventures. Massages and vanilla pleasures are great, but they can also be spiced up with kinky desires and adventure. Trust and discretion needed and respected. Boldness and privacy in a neutral place or out in the wild. I am in Maple Ridge and have a flexible work schedule for accommodating rendezvous. There should be some chemistry so we are both comfortable. I am not looking for couple play, so lets save each other some time. Am not interested in long distance flirting either. Theres lots to explore and I used to enjoy giving massages as well. I may be 53 but still many years left and in fairly good shape

My Ideal Person A woman in the same situation as I . Looking for uninhibited physical pleasures. Looks are not as important as lust and desires.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

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