I’ve noticed that since I passed 60, things don’t work as well as they use to. And several lady friends say the same thing. We seem to be getting our enjoyment not so much from playing pokey-pokey, but from physical touch like we did when we were teenagers. Turns out they gave those techniques a name: “outercourse*”. Ha! Get it? Outercourse vs Innercourse. What a bunch of comedians. You may find yourself drifting towards a more “hands-on” approach. I’m told the lubrication problem is not an issue. If you are a 60+ female interested in trying “outercourse”, we could review those techniques you last used in a drive-in movie! I’m 70+ respectful , imaginative gentleman ISO of a mature lady interested in trying these techniques. If interested, please drop me a line. Who knows were a talk over coffee might lead?- Howard \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Non-penetrative sex; Some outercourse examples include kissing, massage, masturbating, using sex toys on each \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*Non-penetrative sex; Some outercourse examples include kissing, massage, masturbating, using sex toys on each other, dry humping (grinding), and talking about your fantasies.

My Ideal Person A mature lady with daytime availability who is looking for conversation, hugs, cuddles and slow lovemaking. + a little pushing of her envelope.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
exhibitionism

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A movie theatre, An elevator, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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