I have a dominant personality after spending time in the military. My partner is submissive. We are looking to introduce her to a variety of experiences in a safe manner. When it comes to physical health, we are going to try to work together in getting healthy. We are not looking for anyone who would encourage otherwise. We don't do big parties, quiet bars are better. I prefer to be in charge in the bedroom, however, I will encourage requests. I have very few hard nos. She, again, has no idea what hers are. In the bedroom, 1 on 1, 2 on 1 or 2 on 2 are acceptable.