Gentlemen: So you can't stop thinking about hooking up with another man? Maybe you 'dabbled' in college and lately the thought's have been coming back... Or maybe you've never tried it, and you're curious... But even if you met someone, where would you go? How would you connect...? If you live in, or visit Washington, DC, our group may be the answer. Let me introdouce you to "The Circle," an informal, sensual men's group for Bi Married/Str8 Men of Color in Washington, DC. Organized in May, 2001, we now have about 16 'members' who gather once a month, splitting the cost of a nice, comfortable hotel. We also hold interim meetings at various private locations (some of these are interracial gatherings). Members also are encouraged to get together as their schedules/interest allow. There are no 'dues' or gothic initiations. All activities are consentual and 'mainstream'. Our goal is to provide a safe, respectful space for married men of color to find release and acceptance in a comfortable, ultra-discreet, completely "DL" setting. STANDARD MEMBERS Enabled - Please Write!

My Ideal Person We are looking for discreet, professional men of color. Although most of the current members are African-American and Latino, we would welcome Persian, East Indian, Mediterranean and other men of color as well. If you've been seeking a 'safe-space' to explore or re-discover another aspect of your sensuality, among men who understand that your priority is and will remain your home life and career - The Circle may be for you. Our profile is the 'typical husband next door'. Our members run the range from trim to husky (ie: beer belly or spare tire is no problem...), 'top' to 'bottom', hairy to smooth, tall to small, light to dark. If you are clean, drug and disease free, and can refrain from smoking during meetings out of respect for those who cannot return home smelling of cigarrettes..., write us and introdouce yourself - How long have you been 'experimenting'? What sexual activities do you enjoy with other guys? And yes, give us an honest physical description of yourself. Married/Bi businessmen who are traveling to the Washington, DC metropolitan area who would like to 'host' a meeting at their hotel also are welcome to contact us. Again, we are clean, discreet and know how to conduct ourselves. We do have occasional meetings open to non-men of color...