I'm looking for a long term affair with a man who will also be a friend. I am attached with a man (for life) and I will never leave him for any reason. This is what you need to understand and accept. Discretion is very important!! I am missing the affection, the romance, the intimacy in my current relationship...and this is what I am looking for. I only need a fill in...not a replacement.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a guy who's mature enough to handle this secret. Between the ages of 35-45. No long hair please. Preferably no facial hair (beards). Mustache is ok if it is neatly trimmed.

White men with blue or green eyes are a plus. My sexual satisfaction must be your goal. Don't worry, I promise to satisfy you every single time if you do the same for me.

I love to take my time, and prefer you do to. However, there may be times when a 'quickie' would be just as satisfying. I love to kiss and cuddle. It is hard to find a 'good' kisser...and you must win me over with your kissing before things go further.

We must be able to talk and laugh. I hate the 'uncomfortable silence' that sometimes occur before or after the deed. I like to be held after the deed...and not be 'hinted' to leave, as this is what you can expect from me too.

I am picky and will not just screw anyone. I've been there and done that and NOW, I know what exactly it is that I want.

Please be honest and real. Only serious inquiries only please. Don't waste my time and I will not waste yours.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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