[COLOR blue][B]I realize there are 50 thousand guys here looking for a NSA relationship; I imagine that most them are less than desirable, probably have clueless, loving wives at home that they say "I love you" to, and are here for the sole purpose of satisfying their own selfish needs. Because of this, and the fact that most women have common sense and can see through the crap, I realize I stand very little chance of being taken seriously...but here goes anyway... [B][COLOR red]UPDATE! 12/18/2006 Please...PLEASE...If your sole intent on emailing a response to my ad is to simply counsel me or chastise me for being married and putting an ad up on this site...SAVE YOUR KEYSTROKES! Yeah, I'm MARRIED. Yeah, I'm here looking for SEX. But you know what? At least I'm HONEST about why I'm here and who I am. I'm not some scumbag who has a loving wife at home, while I try to lead some double life. I don't hide the fact that I'm married...IT'S IN MY TITLE!! IT'S THE FIRST THING YOU SEE!! For crying out loud, I have 3 easily recognizable pictures up...not cock shots or the "anonymous" silouhette. So don't email me with "advice" or to tell me that what I'm doing is "wrong" or that in the end "I'm only hurting my ". Before you start typing that email, think about why YOU are on this site browsing ads. Whether you're married or not, you're looking for the EXACT same thing I am...SEX. Someone to connect with. Someone to make you feel good about yourself again. Someone to help awaken those feelings and sensations inside you that died long ago. I'm upfront about everything in my life, and the fact is, if you don't like the fact that I'm married, click on to the next ad. Don't waste my time or yours. But if you want to get to know me and see where things go...then by all means send me a message. [/COLOR][/B] I'm 34, blonde hair, green eyes, 6'0", 190 pounds and attractive. I'm in a professional career. I've been married for 6 years, and the past 4 have been miserable. The only reason we haven't divorced is because of my 2 beautiful boys. They define me, and I can't imagine being without them for a single day...so being the "weekend dad" is simply out of the question right now. So i'm stuck in this lonely rut. I've put myself here. I know that. And I don't need someone to email me and remind me, so if that's your intention, please don't bother. I'm a very sensual, passionate guy, and have absolutely no one to share it with. I don't love my wife, and she doesn't love me. I've stuck around for my boys, and she sticks around because a divorce means she'd have to get a job and actually be a responsible adult and pay bills, and I wouldn't be her meal ticket anymore. [/B][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person I'm hoping to meet a woman who can look past the fact that I'm married, for an NSA encounter or possibly several. The woman I want doesn't have to be perfect. Just listen to me. Pretend you like me. Pretend for a little while that I'm your man, and you want me. Be attractive. A few extra pounds are perfectly fine with me. But personailty is a must. And you must LOVE SEX, and OFTEN! To be clear, I am NOT looking for multiple random encounters. I'm looking for one woman who can understand and appreciate the situation I'm in, and is willing to help me let loose this side of me that's been pent up for soooo long.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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