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Advice would be helpful
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등록시간:2016 04 21 12:01 pm
최근 수정:2016 04 26 2:27 pm 6328 조회수
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My friend recently asked me for advice, but I've never been in her situation so I didn't know what to say.
She has let her best friend's cousin move in with her (I'll call him Bob). He was at the mission because he had so much to pay in child support and other bills that he couldn't get his own place and his "girlfriend" and his family would not take him in and help him. She let him move into her apt in her extra room. Everything is working out well in that respect.
The problem is that she is very sexually attracted to him and is even developing an infatuation and she believes that he feels the same but won't act on it. He is afraid that his girlfriend (I use the term loosely because she treats him like garbage) will find out and will never let him see his daughter again. She has full custody. She has also filed false domestic violence reports on him when she is mad and he has spent time in jail for that. She then recants her statement after the damage has been done. Bob is also terrified that she will put him in prison by lying to his probation officer and the police.
Bob has been flirting and teasing my friend something fierce, but just wont take that last step, and my friend doesn't want to push it because she's afraid that he will feel uncomfortable and move out and end up at the mission again, after he's been doing so well.
Should I tell her that she has made her feelings clear and leave it up to him to act on it if he wants to, or to just ignore the attraction because nothing will ever happen because of his baby's mother?
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I feel good
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등록시간:2016 01 29 3:04 pm
최근 수정:2016 02 8 4:06 am 8345 조회수
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I know everyone says that you need to feel good about yourself on your own merits, but I'll tell you what...my profile just hit 3000 views and I've only been on for a month. And that makes me feel pretty good.
It's been a long time since I've felt pretty, or sexy, or wanted and this site is a huge boost to my ego. I've never thought of myself as anything more than passably cute. Plus I've talked to and met some really great people as well. I'm glad I joined up again.
So maybe it isn't politically correct or feminine strong, but a healthy dose of male lust does wonders for your mood and attitude LOL 
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Frustrating
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등록시간:2016 01 25 12:27 pm
최근 수정:2016 01 30 10:13 am 8471 조회수
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I think an attraction to someone is important, especially on this site. I post a face picture and I'm honest about being a large-sized woman. I don't post pictures of my "lady-bits" on my profile, I prefer to save them for the men that I'm interested in. But it's great if someone else wants to post theirs, to each their own.
But the thing is that I'm attracted to a nice smile and kind eyes. I don't mind if you send me an email, but if you don't have a picture of your face, then your profile just becomes another body part, and it gets lost in a veritable sea of chests, butts, arms and, of course, dicks. A profile doesn't stand out to me unless I get a face to go with it.
I mean, I put a recent face picture up so everyone knows what I look like, so I don't think it's out of line to know what someone who's contacting me looks like as well.
I understand that some people don't want to put their face on their profile because they don't want to be recognized on this site. But I always think of it as if someone recognizes you, then that mean that someone was on this site as well, right?
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Safety
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등록시간:2016 01 15 11:29 am
최근 수정:2016 01 30 10:14 am 8637 조회수
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I'll admit, I've done some really stupid things in the past...things I look back on now and I wonder how nothing bad happened to me.
I used to be on Passion 10-12 years ago, and I would drive for hours to meet someone. I think back now on how lucky I was because no one knew where I was going or who I was going to meet. If someone had wanted to hurt me I could have disappeared and never been found. My guardian angel was working overtime.
Now, I tell my best friend where I'm going and who I'll be with, IF I decide to drive to meet someone. But now I just feel safer to have someone come to meet me, on my home turf, so to speak.
I know most of the men on Passion would never even think to hurt a woman, but there' always that one wild card...
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