Gissa Job???
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Pubblicato:17 Ottobre 2011 7:17 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:18 Ottobre 2013 6:44 am 39681 visite
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Right I'm 57, a history of illness and disability stretching back many years, my heart is pretty dodgy, even though I've had a quad bypass I still suffer from unstable angina. I've recovered from cancer which struck back in the early 80's. Following an 'incident' whilst serving my second tour in NI my body is full of tiny shards of molten aluminium, with several larger pieces lodged in my spine which causes constant pain, though the level does vary from hour to hour and day to day. I smoke, wear glasses, have a shaved head, more than a few visible tattoos and wear an ear-ring.......so would you employ me? It's OK I know the answer lol, a few years back I was told by a delightful woman at the Jobcentre that as far as she was concerned I am unemployable in that if she passed my CV to ANY employer it would only get as far as the waste bin. Well she was WRONG!!! Last week I started work in a local Music Shop doing what I do best, talking and selling, I was fortunate that my now employer looked past all my shortcomings and saw me in what was evidently a favourable light. OK I was very lucky in that before offering me a job she had got to know J and I pretty well as we were frequent visitors and it seems she was on the lookout for someone that could talk, sell and knew a fair bit about music and musical instruments and I fitted the bill!! It's not exactly a high-flying career, nor is it highly paid but at least it gets me away from the house, meeting new people and enjoying life back in the real world. Yes it is a little hard dealing with the extra stress on my body but it's so worth it! So once again, much as what happened in my love-life, my overwhelming message to anyone that is in a similar position, never, ever give up because you truly do not know what is just around the corner 
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Finally giving up the weed
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Pubblicato:11 Luglio 2008 1:29 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:11 Novembre 2009 8:48 am 37098 visite
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Well after nigh on 40 years, 3 heart attacks, quad by-pass and crap lungs I have finally been persuaded thats it's time to quit. I have done so once before but slipped back, this time I'm hoping that the course of Champix tablets will help me get through it and that at the end I will be free from the addiction.
I'm hoping that by doing so I will also get rid of or mitigate some of the health problems I am currently having and remove the easy excuse for the doctors to blame everything under the sun on smoking (and they can't shift the blame to weight or booze because I'm not over-weight and I don't drink lol) so now they will have to actually do some work!!
It would also be nice to not find myself standing out in the wind and rain smoking, the money saved would be nice too lol.
Anyway, as from tomorrow, 12th July, no more fags for me
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Well it's been 11 days now, not too bad really, the cravings are easy to deal with, my appetite is huge lol so going to have to watch that!! I sleep better, and I can smell and taste the world an awful lot more than for the last 40 years, which sometimes is a mixed blessing lol.
Hopefully this will continue and I will never smoke again, even now I tell myself I am a non-smoker and not an ex-smoker. I also know that the big test will be when I stop taking the tablets, but that will not be for a few weeks yet so one day at a time
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New Arrival :-)
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Pubblicato:6 Maggio 2008 7:38 pm
Ultimo aggiornamento:4 Novembre 2013 7:43 pm 34175 visite
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I am extremely pleased to announce the arrival of my 3rd grandson, Thomas Michael, born at 1.43am this morning weighing in at a small but lively 6lb 12oz, both mother and son are doing well.
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Alternatives
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Pubblicato:19 Aprile 2008 10:11 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:17 Dicembre 2014 3:42 am 32961 visite
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Hi all, well the whole cam issue seems to have stirred up the members a tad.............I'm not a big cammer these days, been there, done that kind of thing, but I did like to watch them now and then  So, now I can't do that here which is a bit annoying, the new policy also means that I now have no reason to cam at all here even if I wanted to plus it's taken away the chance to view some people I have known for a good long time. OK so some of those I can view through messengers off-site, but it's a pain if there is more than one person at a time I would like to chat and maybe share a cam with. So.......I went a-hunting and have found a really nifty site thats allowed me to set up a private room, password controlled, good reliable streaming web-cam, audio chat etc etc., and all for free (so far lolol) So should anyone reading this, old friends and new, wish to join me at any time just let me know ok?
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Losing some sympathy
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Pubblicato:27 Febbraio 2008 1:48 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:28 Ottobre 2013 11:06 pm 31427 visite
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Ever since I've been a member if the site I've always had a lot of sympathy for girls in the room when they have been the subject of any form of abuse, I've usually tried my best to do my bit to help them out, to try and prevent it happening or try to nip it in the bud as soon as possible. But, after last night my sympathy has been reduced yet further. I witnessed an oaf insult, swear at, demand cams, etc and generally being obnoxious towards 2 women. This person has done this time and time again in several rooms, he has been told by so many people to stop it, he has been placed in the iggy box by lots of people and indeed been banned from rooms I believe. And yet he still does it. So once again last night he was at it again, and guess what, yep the girls told him to behave, others were getting annoyed with him, but no he kept it up.....until, yep he reached the desired effect and basically became the centre of attention. Then he poured on a little honey and sure enough the 2 girls forgave him . I've seen this happen time and time again, and 8 times out of 10 with a bit of sweet talk and creeping the girls forgive and forget.
OK so the guy knows how to work a room, but from now on I don't want to be around when any woman complains about getting abused and complains about the way they get treated. I cannot for the life of me see why people like this are given even a 2nd chance let alone a 3rd, 4th, 5th ad nauseum.
Why do you girls do it? Do you enjoy being told to 'fuck off'?? Do you enjoy people demanding to see your bodies on cam even if you either are not in the mood or it's not possible at that time? Are you willing to forgive anyone just because they go on cam and 'perform' on a regular basis?
I of course know that an awful lot of women would not find this behaviour in any way acceptable, but those that do baffle me, and yet it's usually those that complain loudest and longest??
Anyway small rant over, but if any of you can tell me why this happens I'd really like to know.
Maybe it's me thats doing it wrong by being polite and cheerful as much as possible, by not being rude, ignorant or foul mouthed? Perhaps it's time I started coming into rooms drunk (or worse, possibly drugged up to the eyeballs)? I dunno lol
Nah no chance, I'll just stay me, boring no doubt, but hey it seems to work for me lolol
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Good start to the New Year?
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Pubblicato:18 Gennaio 2008 3:11 am
Ultimo aggiornamento:21 Gennaio 2008 10:24 am 31132 visite
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I'm not sure if it's just me, but so far this year people I know on this site seem to be having a great start to the year, lots of successful meets etc, a big improvement on last year when things did not seem to be going so well for so many. I'm just hoping things continue the way they have so far and that 2008 will prove to be the best year yet for me and others I know for making new 'friends'
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