How do you keep track of randoms?
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Posted:Jan 28, 2015 3:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2015 5:44 am
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So apparently some guy I don't remember doesn't believe I'm what he's looking for. He sent a message that I found buried in my emails saying he wanted to get it out there now that he isn't interested. I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be heartbroken over someone I may not have even spoken to. Lol but seriously, wtf? does a guy assume that some chick here is going to be so desperate for attention that she's going to be hung up on a stranger? OK, yes, girls can get a little crazy when it comes to men. Yes, I'm in a weird place with my bf right now, feeling incredibly insecure, but seriously, I sign in and there's at least 10 messages whenever I sign in and that's multiple times a day. When on IM, there's probably like an average of 10 guys wanting attention there as well. A guy has to be pretty special to stand out in a crowd of men who just want to be balls deep in a new pussy. It may not sound nice, but they all just seem the same, no one has stood out from the crowd in a fair while. Do you fake it ? pretend you know what they are talking about? or be honest and have them think you're a bitch ?
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Just down right pooped out
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Posted:Jan 27, 2015 3:58 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 10:57 pm
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so things have been crazy busy and I got like an hours sleep last night. Today has wiped me out. My eldest started back at school and I forgot how many hours out of the day revolve around school routines. By the time I eventually got home, I had enough time to get my youngest into bed for a quick nap and then spend an hour on the treadmill. After school, it was passport photos, shoe shopping and then home to do washing, dinner and bath time. I literally just sat down. So that's day 1 of the return to school. There is a plus side, last night I got to spend 2 hours on facetime with the boy before we both got some sleep. He calls 5 or 6 times a day. He's enjoying it, but he's also getting pissed with the lifestyle. Thank god for facetime - It is making it easier to keep in touch
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Long distance relationships
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Posted:Jan 23, 2015 5:14 am
Last Updated:Jan 24, 2015 6:05 am
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So, I'm currently seeing a man who lives on the north side of Brisbane, so if traffic is good, he's just over an hour away. We talk a few times a day and see each other probably every second day. But tomorrow night, he's flying to Taipei for 16 days. And there's a complicated reason for this which I'm not keen to share at the moment and I'm feeling pretty insecure about the whole situation. When he comes back, things might have changed. What if he doesn't feel the same about me when he gets back ? How do I keep his interest while he's away. He asked me to go, so it's not like he did it behind my back, but I don't have a passport. He wants to FaceTime and text etc, but I'm scared things are going to change. How do I make him miss me without coming across as needy?
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And single again
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Posted:Jan 17, 2015 7:58 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2015 6:17 am
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I think I should accept the fact that I am not designed to be in a relationship. The last guy gave me incredible sex, told me he loved me, wanted to marry me, but in the next breath told me he wanted a simple life and freedom. Um what? When I called him out, he said I was making myself hate him with the lies (about him just wanting me for sex). I'm so emotionally drained by the constant relationship fck ups
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Separating lust from love
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Posted:Jan 7, 2015 6:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2015 2:50 am
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Struggling with remaining emotionally unattached. The more time I spend with this man out of the bedroom, the more I like him. If it was just sex, great, but he says he feels like I'm using him for sex and that hurts him. I'm walking a fine line. On the one hand, I want to keep him all for myself (incredible sex, seriously insane) and the other, I want to push him away before he hurts me. My track record is pretty awful when it comes to men. And he keeps saying we are in a relationship whether I agree or not and even if it's just sex, we are still involved. He says I'm not just someone to fuck. I can see it hurting him when I put up the wall between us. How do I let go of my fear of being hurt again?
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Penis Size
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Posted:Jan 4, 2015 4:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2015 5:00 am
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So, friends and I have been talking about penis size lately. A guy friend has been rejected a fair few times recently because the girls aren't happy about a 7 inch cock. These girls are chasing 10 inch cocks. He's 7 inches in length, not a small dick in length but a monster in width. one hand wouldn't close around it.
He's got a nice, thick cock and is being rejected by women because it's not long enough. What the hell?!!
What's your opinion? personally, it's not the length that does it for me, it's the width. For me, if it's too long, it hurts and sex is all about pleasure.
Opinions ? what's working best for you ?
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Cultural Differences
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Posted:Dec 31, 2014 5:07 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 10:57 pm
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So, recently I met an Israeli man and it's been different. English is not his first language, so we have that to contend with and then there are some behaviours that differ between him a and me as an Australian woman. He's very giving, and incredibly open. He lit the candles and did the blessings with us for Hanukkah. It was a nice experience. He offers to help me or buy me things, which I find difficult. Women take advantage using sex to get what they want. I refuse to take anything, then I don't owe a man anything and he can't hold it against me. And the sex is amazing, incredible. I love his cock, it's massive. And all men should be circumcised - sorry, I like a tidy, neat looking dick. So that's been Xmas, hopefully the new year works out well
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I feel better
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Posted:Dec 6, 2014 4:59 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2015 6:29 am
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I feel like a giant weight has been lifted from my heart, and my head. When I think about him, I don't have that pain. And I'm hardly thinking about him anyway. He told me that I couldn't stay away from him, well, he was wrong. I don't chase, he told me to let him suffer it out without me, so I have. No contact in almost a week and it's helped. He's missing out, not me. I am a single, young, attractive (well, that's what I keep getting told) woman who doesn't need a man who doesn't respect her.
I'm tired of the word sorry, I'm tired of being called a friend and I'm tired of him trying to keep me in a leash. And I'm over him thanking me for "changing" him. In general, I'm tired of him.
On the upside, I'm being chased by a few men, which feels good. It's nice to have options
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Wow
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Posted:Nov 29, 2014 4:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2014 11:30 pm
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So today this guy messaged me here asking if I was busy tonight. I said I may be free so he left his number and said message if you're interested. I didn't message him, which would suggest I wasn't interested. So, he hits me up asking where I live etc and I was trying to be polite, but non committal. Then I suggested that there may not have been a sexual attraction. For that I got abused and called a time waster and "weird" for trying to discourage a guy from fucking me. Am I just supposed to go, "hey, u don't turn me on at all, leave me alone" instead of gently suggesting that there's no connection? And when did it become ok to abuse someone for not being attracted to you. Yes, the guy has a quite substantial dick, but it's not huge. Perhaps he needs lessons in handling rejection. I'm going through a dry spell, but it doesn't mean I'm just going to fuck anyone
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It feels a little better everyday
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Posted:Nov 27, 2014 12:23 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 10:57 pm
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I thought he would be harder to get over, but it's surprising me. Maybe the faster and harder you fall, the faster you recover. He told me yesterday that his feelings for me haven't changed. He still loves me and he misses me, but he made his choice and now he's got to suffer it out. He keeps saying he's sorry for hurting me, he never wanted to break my heart, but sorry no longer has any meaning. He tells me he misses my voice and my "beautiful" face. I ache when I hear these things because I can remember his voice when he told me. He said he's hurting without me. If it hurts so much, why stay in a house that isn't happy? His wife knows we are still talking. She doesn't like it, but I need him to hear how I am feeling so I can heal. And getting angry at him and having him own it is what's helping to kill my feelings towards him. He told her he loves me, that doesn't just stop because she says it should. The biggest thing that has hit me so far is him saying that I changed him. He said I opened him up so that he could be honest with her about how unhappy he is at home. But he hasn't told her everything. He told her we fell hard and deep and that he wanted to leave because he had found his best friend and someone he couldn't live without (but hey, he's still living so that was a big fat lie) but he never told her about the naked pics, the phone sex and the 400 text messages everyday and the 2 hours we spoke on the phone everyday. I still want to tell her. I want her to know that it wasn't just sex, it was emotional as well. But I can't . He said she wouldn't kick him out anyway, she'd just cop it. I still feel like I want to talk to him, see him, hold him, but I know that everyday from here will make me stronger
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I just couldn't leave him alone
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Posted:Nov 25, 2014 12:55 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2014 7:12 pm
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And now, my heart is broken into a thousand little pieces and I'm not sure how to fix it. I want to scream at him, I'd love to kick him in the balls but I can't, I want to share every single moment of his lies with her, punish him and make him feel as awful as I do. But, I'm just Not that girl. I knew I was doing wrong, I knew I was playing with fire and he burnt me. I'm just angry at myself for letting him in. For the first time ever, I had someone who knew me better than anyone else. We would say things at the same time, want the same things, I know all his secrets. He was convincing me that we would have this perfect life together because he was my best friend. And now I'm sitting here, full of his secrets and lies and feeling like I have a knife stuck in my heart. And I just want him to feel some of what I am feeling. I want him to hurt, is that such a bad thing ?
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How to get over a heartbreak
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Posted:Nov 8, 2014 2:53 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2014 4:30 am
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So, I've been doing a lot of research in the last day or so on the best methods of getting over someone. And there are a lot of conflicting articles regarding which one is best. Best way to get over someone really is to get UNDER someone: New study on rebound relationships finds people who move on quickly are emotionally healthier
Published in the Daily Mail, the article states that people who moved on to new relationships quickly, felt more desirable, more attractive and were more confident than those who tried to suffer through heartbreak alone. So I suppose my question is this, has a rebound worked for you ? Do you feel sexier, stronger and more in control when you start a sexual relationship or have a fling after a break up? Or do you sit at home with your ice cream, alcohol and weeping while watching some crappy romance or listening to all those sad love songs? Do you delete all texts, photos and their phone number? or do you get drunk and drunk dial them begging them to take you back?
My way of dealing with the most recent, stop reading the texts, don't look at his pictures and basically turn my phone on silent or turn the music up so that I'm not checking for text messages all the time. Today, I didn't hear from him and I didn't cave and contact him. Day 1 is almost complete. And I feel it's been a success and so perhaps I might try the getting under tactic, because, hey you can never have enough clever solutions to a problem
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Love
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Posted:Nov 6, 2014 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Nov 6, 2014 8:14 pm
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Love, it really is that one thing that knocks you on your ass when you least expect it and it's not always for the best. They are the right person, but it's the wrong time or the wrong person at the right time. I'm feeling it bad right now. I left my sons dad because we fought all the time. He was emotionally abusive and at times, it included physical violence. He was supposed to be the right man. If not marriage, we were supposed to last forever. But it didn't. I'm not sure when I stopped loving him, I may still have loved him when I walked out, but that died with the phone calls. And when you are least expecting it, you meet someone randomly and you get the butterflies and you spend all your time talking to them, really getting to know them and a connection is formed and you just want that person there with you all the time, rain, hail or shine. And that person tells you that what you're feeling is the same thing they are feeling and they want you, for who you are. But what if that person is married? Already committed to taking care of another person? How do you tell your heart that this person will take your heart and tear it apart, because you will never have them. Regardless of what they say, how they make you feel, you found them too late. How can you expect that person to leave their family and choose you? You can't. It's too much to split a family, it's too much. But you look back at what you've shared with this person and your heart just asks for the tiniest piece of them, just enough to get through a day without them. How do you tell your heart to stop loving someone? How do you ease the pain? Is it by erasing their messages, their number, their picture? but how do you erase the sound of their voice? Tell me, because I'm going crazy trying to make it through
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