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Women porn and the 3%
Posted:Jun 28, 2015 2:59 am
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2024 3:25 am

Hi all this is a tale of the new reality of how I believe women see men when it comes to ....well our package. Thanks to the ease of access to loads of free online porn and the fact that more and more women are comfortable viewing it a new norm is accuring. That being the rise of the "size queen", she loves what she sees and now she wants what she sees. That being the "big dick". She wants her lover to now have at least an 8" inch dick or more. I know I know not EVERY women wants it but more and more do. It might be for fucking or it might be just for sucking and stroking but they want one. And that's where the 3% comes in. You all have seen the stats we have almost all googled to see where we stack up so to speak and when we do most of us find out 2 things. 1. we are average just plain fucking average but the good part is average is better than being small which is what most of us thought we were. See it turns out "average" in between 5.5" inches and 6.0" inches with over 80% of the male population falling in that category. And what the ladies have a burning desire for ? Why that my friends is the top 3%, and here I am being generous because most of the studies peg it at less than that of the male population who is over the magic 8.

And that's it ladies that's the gay the straight the maddies and the single period end of story. So they are fighting over that 3% and forget about the rest of us. I know the old saying it's not the size but how you use it and to a large extant that is true, after all her vagina only needs about a 2.5" tool to hit all the hot spots , and yes if she loves him studies show the size is not that big of issue. But outside of love well then things are different. The number 1 sized toy ? Yep you guessed it 8x4.5.

It does not matter the size of the lady big small tall thin young old the studies have shown they like their men close to 6' feet average to muscular build dark hair and light eyes, so the old saying is kinda true " I love him to be tall dark and handsome. And as of now that is getting to be harder and harder to find as the population is growing heavier and heavier but hey at least we are getting taller.

So what does that mean for us no 3 percenters? It's all about using other ways to pleasure back to lots of foreplay, toys of a size that will win her mind and oral lots and lots of oral getting her to the point she doesn't care what you are packing as long as it's in her NOW. and that's what I have always banked on because I have everything physically going against me thanks to real bad genes and inactive lifestyle I'm short, fat, and sporting that average 5.75" package. So tell me if you think I am right or if I am wrong here people but I think I am right just look at profiles here or even on your local craigslist and it's what you see the most of so once again thank you porn for ruining it for the 97% of us out there it's our own damn fault since porn is made mostly by dicks like us for dicks like us we got nobody to blame but our selves here.
The Shadow vs. light world of sex
Posted:Feb 19, 2015 12:50 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2024 3:25 am

Living in the world of shadow sex.
This is a blog telling of the life of living in a shadow world of sex vs. the world of light. What's the difference? Well the world of light is the normal world where one is having what could be termed a "normal sex life". That's one in which you have a sexual partner like a husband or wife or you have sexual partners, you know that booty call or Mr. Right for roght now. And the shadow? Well that's when you are not having any sexual contact of any sort. In most cases it was something you never planed for but just sort of happened. You life consist of Fantasy Sex and voyerisim.
I happen to fall into this category. A little note here there are many and most of these are women who say they "can't get any" well we aall know that for the most part that is a lie, women control the world of sex there are plenty of guys who would be up to having sex with them but they are turned down. You hear this most loudly by the ladies of the BBW club. Nobody wants me in fact there is plenty of evidence that there are large numbers of men who want you. They may not be the type that you want is more the case.
They put themselves there saying I want a guy to want me that is like the guy all the other ladies are looking for the special guy the one who is in great demand and is SO limited in quanity. He's tall over 6 ft. he's average to buff in build.He's well educated,sucessful, kind, giving, and oh yeah he's got a nice "package". Ladies first of reality time most of those guys have no problem getting dates and most are taken the reast or either taken and are cheating or they are such douchebags nobody wants them.
As to having a nice package another reality check the percentage of men with over 8" inches is about 7% that's right 7% freaking precent!, 7"inches? rises to 14% the average? just shy yes I said shy of 6"inches so by asking for that big dick your limiting mmost of the male population no little wonder you can't find any one.
Take a look there are hundreds is not thousands of sites just for the large ladies, dating sites, fashion sites and magazins, sex sites as well. There are ladies nights at clubs just for the large ladies. Just look here on Passion, we have a BBW room and there are several community rooms dedicated to them. Look at cams alone a larger lady can be on and there will be a fair number of men looking at their cam the same is not true of the men there are usually a thousand guys on cam at any given time and of them at least 30% are of the large and in charge type and the landies are no flocking to see those cams. There's not web sites no rooms no major magazines no big mens night. Most of the shadow world is filled with them.
Now how did I come to be in this "club"? I fell into it like I imagine most have I mean there are very few who decided to give up having sex my younger brother is one he has shone no interest in sex in over 25 years since the end of his marriage he has his two kinds and I guess he is happy with it. I on the oner haand am not. I think of sex constantly, watching tv you looking at the girls thing damn I would love to fuck her I wonder what she looks like naked. Your pulling out the tablet looking that fact up alone with their measurements. Age is not a factor it's just looks, the same goes to those you see when out. Why is it there is always a "dirty old man" contingent sitting at the mall, because we still think about sex is why.
I got here just after my 34th birthday, my mom got sick and I was in the position to drop what i was doing and help out, well that turned into years of care that was made longer when dad became ill. 15 years went by with no sex because you were busy with "them" you have no job no money of your own and no friends because you left yours behind and never seem to have a chance to make new ones, so your never going out and there is none to "hook you up" and well you can see where it all snowballs into.
What is those in the shadow world doing during this time? They are searching the web joing "dating" and "sex" sites they are roaming over the ads on craig's list, searching and fantisising about the ads for "pros" on back page and such. WE are on the web cam rooms and on Passion visiting the chat rooms and cams imagining a life with sex in it. I have not had full on sex since 1984 and only a few times since when I was working in the early 2000's when I was having oral encounters.
We still hold out hope no matter small that somebody is going to find us sexy enough to take us on I have been regulated to a world of fantasy and so many are like me it's not even funny.
Carrot men vs cucumber men
Posted:Oct 25, 2013 11:33 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2024 3:25 am

I have just viewed a you tube video about the difference in a mens penis size and what women would like us to tell them about our size it brings new light on the subject and in a manor I think is refreshing what do you think about the size of the tool and when and how would you like to find out about it ladies.
Real or Fake
Posted:Aug 28, 2012 6:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2013 11:33 pm

How many are tired of fake profiles? Fake Pictures Fake Ages is it too much or is it expected do you care at all?
Too many fakes really?
It's expected it's AFF
I'll send mail hoping for the best
Turn me off
Piss me off
Don't bother me
Given up on ever seeing an honest profile
Other: tell us in your own words
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Why I now know why I can never find a lady.. or... What women want in a man
Posted:Sep 4, 2010 4:36 am
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2024 3:25 am

A new study has just been published in a leading scientific journal that sheds some light on what both men and women are looking for in a mate and it proves what many of us have known for quiet some time. ! Women like their men tall, between 6' and 6'2 no matter their size (between 5' and 5'10) it was almost the same. 2 They like them well educated, Having between a bachelors and a masters at least. They want them to own a home of their own regardless of age of the ladies (between 20-30). 3 They want them to make a comfortable salary of at least $80,000. 4 they tend to want a man that falls on the 1 to 10 scale on the upper and 8 or above (no surprise there we do to. 5 They wanted a guy with a average to athletic build. 6 They liked men with lighted color eyes (think blue and green) and dark hair ( tall dark and handsome still applies). And finely it was shown that a short man (5'6-5' a man of the same attractiveness needs to make at least $30,000 more than a taller man to be found attractive enough to date. and finely on the matter of a mans penis size 7" to 9" seems to be the size that they wanted.

So what does this all mean to me? I fail in almost every category in what they find attractive since I'm short 5'7-5'8 heavy 345 poor living on disability, don't own my own house and under educated. I only have one thing they seem to want blue eyes lol. So with that I can only hope that there are still some ladies out there that want a kind generous giving and loving guy who's smart if not educated tender and epithetic to the needs of others does not smoke take illegal drugs or drinks a lot loves animals and others especially family and is kinda funny to if your a lady and see this let me know what you think of this latest survey and what you think my real chances are.
Are you new to chatting? how it works on here
Posted:Sep 5, 2008 4:08 am
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2008 5:41 pm

Hi I would like to take the time to try and help out the new members to our little community. I have seen a lot of you trying to figure out how to navigate the fast and sometimes confusing nature of the beast.

First of you got to make sure you have gotten your settings right. In your account settings(these you get to by your home page or the my account on the banner) go to chat/IM options and make sure you have approved messenger pop up request by clicking the box for yes. By doing this you can make sure any request via the messenger will show up.

Next when you are chatting to be able to get those lovely little gems of private chat you need to start the messenger. You do that by clicking on the instant messenger button above the banner. Keep it running while you are here. There are 2 versions one says html under the regular launch this is for slower computers and those not to tech say it's easy to use. You can also hit launch this will start the flash version with all the bells and whistles like paging a member launching your web cam and who's on line right now based on your cupid. Now your ready to receive those messages when it come in simply hit the accept button and your off and running. It has come to my attention that pop up blockers you are running IE. in tools/ options in both IE and Firefox can be having a problem blocking the messenger from working. Try turning them off see if that helps.

You can also chat privately via flash chat mode by clicking on a member and hitting private chat button and typing to them but be forewarned this only works if Both of you are in flash chat. Now I know flash moves much faster and does have a tendency to hang up and not take your post and you end up typing it all over so you do have to watch for that happening you will find html much easier to use and see as well as simple access to the chat options like slowing the room refresh down or changing the color of your postings.
Want to get even more into the chat? Why not go on cam it's easy and can really get the attention no matter what you are willing to show. Once again start the messenger or hit the launch web cam button on top and this is important click the broadcast button and to make you really special also click the sound button so we can not only see you but hear you as well.

And finely the matter of chat room manners. Please guys a little manners here don't start yelling at the ladies to fuck you are run off to another room the second they enter a room, Yes I know there is a HUGE shortage of ladies to men in the chat rooms but be a little patient and spend a little time in the room will go a long way towards more ladies willing to visit rooms. Also to they guys here's a few little hints,
1. yes we know you are on cam the whole room knows your on cam you don't need to advertise it like a used care special if a lady wants to view your cam she will on her own you shouting look at me over and over again only annoys both them and the rest of us and just like spaming the room over and over again with the same line will get you an ignore button then the ladies will never see you at all.

2. Don't be a arm chair director, if a lady is on cam she is going to show you what and when she wants no matter how much you beg to see all of you at once just makes them want to turn the damn thing off.

3. Don't SHOUT this is talking in all caps ,yes you stand out but it just annoying as all hell and just think if everyone did it you will no longer stand out and the room is gonna fill up a lot faster with less post.

4. remember it's open chat so please say the person you are sending to in your post on sending and receiving more than one person may be asking the same person or persons the same question how can we tell who you are talking to?

5. Remember this is supposed to be fun relax enjoy yourself and don't judge others and don't be offended if you don't get talked to or your turned down.

I hope this goes a long way towards you having an enjoyable time here.
another year is here time for a new plan
Posted:Jan 3, 2008 2:08 am
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2008 3:11 am

Ok another year has come and gone and a new one has started and still without a lover man it sucks bet lot's of you say the same thing. What is the over 40 crowd supposed to do?? Hang out in bars with the 20 somethings and hope others show up? Really not everyone has single friends to fix them up what about you any of you have any ideas ?? Let's face it we all want love in 1 form or another and we are trying to find it or we wouldn't be here now would we? How much does looks play a part and if the mind is the largest sexual organ we have shouldn't it have the most say? I think it does I can find something sexy about anyone...well almost and think that being sensual and sexual go a long way in someone being sexy. Well lets start the year off right and let's get sexual lol
Hi all back again can't believe the months have gone by so fast. I haven't had much to do or say in that time. No woman in my life and really no sex how fucked up is that? I did have what could be called 2 quickies though with 2 ladies I meet on here and one from Craig's List of all places 2 wanted to feel my talented tongue on them and 1 wanted to let me feel their's on me. While all 3 were fun if not short lived it just left me craving more a half hour here and there just don't cut it you know I want to have some mind blowing sex LoL. anyway so much for that seems getting older has not been a great experience this year. But there are lovely ladies that are sexual and smart and funny out there it's just a matter of meeting them.
the ever going saga
Posted:Oct 30, 2007 9:22 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2008 8:50 pm

Ok I woke up today in a odd mood with thoughts spilling out of my head in rapid fire mode, not since my old song writing days has it happened like this, and it all do to a few lines seen in a chat room yesterday. How can a sexual being go without sex and still stay sane? That's an interesting question especially for me. Someone said they couldn't believe they had gone a year without it then another said 2 and still another said 5, I said it is amazing how long we go without it but never stop thinking about it or wanting it dare I say craving it the itch that feels so good to scratch. I think of myself as sensual erotic and very sexual BUT due to things (sometimes beyond my control) sometimes not I have found myself in a position of not having sex for close to half my life now. There I finely said it my last sexual encounter with another person took place in 1982 and it was a great 1 to be a last (even if I didn't know it at the time) I had an orgy of moaning twisting bodies 2 couples sharing some moments in a hot tub room in Reno on a cool spring day. My ex partner and I and 2 of our old friends. My ex was in rare form she was exciting to watch as well as be with and my friend and his lover were great. I will always remember making love with her in the steam room as my ex was screaming in the tub. So how do you do it. What helps you get past the not having the not touching. I do other things and find that I can get pleasure from a cyber encounter if and I say If it is done correctly I think some can most can't get it right. The mind is the biggest sexual organ in the body. A story well written is the key a novel if you will a true setup the details the feelings the mood the passion that you feel it all has to be there. It has to draw you in you see it in your mind you taste it smell it it becomes real your body responds my hands move over the keys and over your body yes you stroke you slide you imagine your lover and then it happens. The happy release yes not the same as the real thing but close for those of us not lucky enough to have a lover it is a close second. Can it be enough?? I say no the urge for another soul to touch on that basic level is to strong but until that comes along or if it doesn't the mind can play on.
We are a dying breed
Posted:Sep 18, 2007 10:07 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2012 6:34 am

Hi all this is my first post here and thought I would start it out with something that says a lot about me What follows is so close to how I am it bears repeating it so here goes.

For the Nice Guys:

To every guy that's said, "Sex CAN wait"
To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."
To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town (or across the state) to see her.
To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.
To every guy who has given her flowers just because.
To every guy that will cuddle on the couch with napkins ready watching that "chick flick".
To every guy that said he would die for her.
To every guy that really would.
To every guy that did what she wanted to do.
To every guy that cried in front of her.
To every guy that she cried in front of.
To every guy that holds hands with her.
To every guy who held her tight when she needed to be held.
To every guy that kisses her with meaning.
To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.
To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.
To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.
To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.
To every guy that would sit and wait for her for hours just to see her for ten minutes
To every guy that would give his seat up.
To every guy that just wants to cuddle.
To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.
To every guy who told his secrets to her.
To every guy who listened to her secrets.
To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath he took.
To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.
To every guy that believed in her dreams.
To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.
To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.
To every guy that walked her to her car.
To every guy that gave his heart.
To every guy who gave her his undying love.
To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.
To every guy that wishes only the best for her.
...This one bulletin is for you...

Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore...
And because of this, there are not many left out there...

i guarantee 90% of the men on here will not repost this because they care more about their image than they do the truth.

If you are a nice guy repost this with "We're a Dying Breed "

If you are a girl that thinks every guy should treat a girl this way
repost this with: "To Every Guy..."

I hope you see this and pass it on let's try to bring the good guy back. Well to next time good night and good sex.
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