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which one are u??  

dicksnwife 58M/53F
21 posts
5/24/2008 7:03 am
which one are u??

If you are reading this, you are obviously interested in the cuckold lifestyle. Notice that I didn't say that you are a cuckold, hotwife, or bull. Why? Because most of the people who read this are either wannabe's or worse ‒ fakes.

Go around and look at any cuckold group on the Internet. Most people either have blank profiles or bad profiles. What do I mean by bad profile? Pictures that are obviously professional and taken from a porn site or the profile of a supposed cuckolded hubby that indicates
he is single or a Hot Wife that talks like a trucker when describing herself.

Oh and let's not forget the `professional services' while we are exploring cuckold profiles. The people who want you to join
their website, or the people who will let you call them and talk about being cuckolded for $5.99 a minute. Do us all a favor and ignore these profiles and everything that comes from them. They are not in this lifestyle. They are giving you a fantasy world to make money, and ruining many of our newsgroups and websites doing it.

How do you identify fake couples? Usually the picture itself is a dead giveaway. Take a close look at it. While some real couples do have professional looking photos, very few have spent the money required to do a shoot with 3 or 4
lights in a studio with expensive backgrounds and props and a professional photographer. Is she a little too good-looking? A little too well posed? Go with your gut, and keep a healthy doubt
about you before spending hours chatting with a couple that could very well be some guy in his basement jerking off at your expense.

Take a look at what they say in their posts. Compare it to what their profile says. Does the post say they are married and yet the Yahoo
profile says they are a "Single Male"? I personally doubt any couple on Yahoo that is supposedly looking for a third, yet
doesn't take the time to advertise this fact in their profile. Most couples who are looking, WANT people to find them. Another dead giveaway is location. When you see a post asking for
someone to come fuck a hotwife, but don't even list what state or COUNTRY they live in, just ignore it. Seriously, it's always fake. Try to ignore people who won't even list what major city they live near while you are at it. Ok fine, they live in Texas, but Texas is pretty damn huge, and I'd hope they are not desperate enough that they have to drive 6 hours for some sex.

Maybe one of the biggest giveaways is when someone posts a `true' story as written by `the wife' and you see sentences like `As he licked my throbbing wet cunt hole I squirted out gallons of my lovers steaming hot man-goo that tasted like liquid fire going down my husbands throat' WOMEN DO NOT WRITE LIKE THIS. Go read some stories by well known female authors. It's very very different than the stuff us guys write.

How do the real couples sort through the 10 million Bulls looking for sex?

Well again, with profiles. They should be filled out, with pictures, and never say stuff like "married by looking". If the guy has a wife who can't trust him, you shouldn't either. Period. A lot of guys in this lifestyle are out trying to get laid in cuckold or swinger groups because they feel we are the most morally lacking and the most likely to grant them some bed-time.
Location is important here too. There are guys
out there who will seriously drive 12 hours to meet with you for the chance of maybe getting into your bed. Doesn't this scare you?

Oh and ignore any guy who has nothing but a cock picture in his profile. I understand that a lot of people may not want a picture of their face
online when advertising for this type or relationship, but that doesn't excuse someone from taking a silhouette or from being creative in blocking their face out of a shot. Not having a camera is the worst excuse you will ever hear. For $6.00 anyone can buy a disposable camera
take some non-adult pictures and have them put on a CD at Wal*Mart. Do you really wanna shack up with someone who can't afford $6.00?

A real Bull profile or post is intelligent. He doesn't spell three letter words like `you' and `are' with 1 letter… as in `r u 4 real?' He has a good picture of more than his cock, he says outright he's a Bull or Dom, and he's interested in meeting cuckold couples. He's polite when you talk to him, and doesn't instantly start talking
about sex.

How do these two groups of people meet in real life? Carefully. Couples rule the show. They set the guidelines. Where to meet, when is best, and what will or will not happen the night they meet. If they want the Bulls home number before meeting they can ask for it. If they want to sneak into the restaurant bathroom to check out cock-size before going further they can demand that as well. Until a couple says `ok' ‒ the Bull is NOT in charge.

Bulls need to be careful too. Always be very wary of meeting with just the male ½ of the couple. Even go so far as to ask to hear
the females voice over the phone before agreeing to meet. Again, lots of guys are full of shit, and they either do not have a wife, or
their wife doesn't know. If the couple wants to take digital pictures, make sure you see what is on their camera before you go home. You wouldn't want you face all over the Internet would ya?

Generally most of the people out there are not real. They are fantasy players. Go the extra step in weeding them out and you can meet some quality people.

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HDSoftail20067 57M  
251 posts
1/28/2009 3:05 pm

Well said!

Tennguy51 67M

10/28/2009 6:03 pm

Very well written, concise and to the point. Only point I would mention is the final decision on interaction is up to the female of the couple based on my experiences.

rm_3wayMan26 47M
5 posts
4/27/2010 5:33 pm

Yes I agree. This is a very well written description on the do's and dont's on cuckolding. An art I am very interested in knowing more about. Great post.


rm_luv_lickin4u 41M
65 posts
10/12/2010 5:11 pm

well, just so you know. I've been propositioned by 3 cuckhold couples so far on this site. I've accepted all 3 and have slowly grown to enjoy performing for them. At first it was very awkward for me to perform in front of the hubby. But now that I'm used to it I don't mind it at all.

playground6960 63M/57F  

5/4/2011 6:58 pm

so where would you place our profile??? real or fake ???

GAGentleman4You 45M
17 posts
3/21/2016 2:25 pm

Wow - A very well written summary.....I found it both educational, and arousing! Please do tell more in future postings!!!!!

theoweiland1 56M
24 posts
5/10/2019 5:30 pm

I've been the black bull for a few couples, and it's so much fun!
If you would like, I can be your black bull too.
Email me at theoweiland1 at G male and let's talk.

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