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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2019 8:51 am

And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

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another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
Yanno your old when...
Posted:May 17, 2019 12:56 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2019 5:37 pm
A nude pic gets no love, comments (pos or neg), messages, nada nothing zilch.

People ask why I rarely post on the kink site, well its like a giant blackhole of nothingness ever since i turned 39.
Just a few really old, really young, fetishists, or hookup guys messaged over the years.
And on the vanilla blogland obviously I can not chat about sex, kink, bdsm, alternative lifestyles... or I'm branded as just good for a hookup.

Long wknd here, busy with yard work and house stuff.

Just thought I would share that #NotAll women have it easy.
Just because you are tossed random nsa/anonymous sex doesn't mean thats a good thing, as I'm sure you have less desirable women in your inbox on occasion.
Thursday thoughts
Posted:May 16, 2019 10:28 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2019 9:33 pm

Uncaring sex vs fulltime relationship sex, why is there such a great divide between them or its one vs the other.
Are we so far removed from the human connection that we view others as a thing to do rather than a person to meet.

I know I have had to change the way I meet from making plans to meet a specific person, I now make plans to shop or eat in that area and if he shows up then good if not whatever because I'm already doing something. My time was not treated well because I was willing to meet and travel, being treated as a lesser person because of that meant a hard lesson learned to not make plans.
I just don't understand the race to who can stay the most detached, disinterested, and cold...yet desire passionate, fun, trusting sex.

Pondering again because #SexuallyFrustrated ...and lonely, tired of masturbating, mentally bored with dating sites. Lol

Enjoy your day and don't forget to line up your hot dates for the wknd
Wat u doin?
Posted:May 15, 2019 10:55 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2019 9:38 am
Almost broke my phone typing that headline out, but I do shorten up a few words like 'probs', 'bec' and of course 'lol'.

When it comes to connection, hru is not going to catch my attention but I also tire of reading big words full of fluff n stuff.
In case you haven't guessed I tend to be straight to the point, but I have learned tact and the take the other person's feelings into account. Which means I rarely tell it like it is and I've learned to gloss it over.

And then it comes to searching for people that can connect with me, I will let you know when I figure that out. That book I mentioned before by G. Ogden is helping me get back that hopeful feeling that there are men out there who support female sexuality beyond his dic-centric thoughts.
There are fleeting glimmers of maybe I will find him, so thats good because I have been working hard at lowering and controlling my libido, my thoughts, desires, and everything in between. My interests in bdsm and sex are more on the backburner...

But for now I wade thru the shallow waters of 'hru' and 'wat u doin' types.

Enjoy the day
And no I did not ask any questions today, I'm just pulling thoughts out of my head and mulling them over.
Posted:May 13, 2019 4:09 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2019 6:52 pm

I know I not very good flirting, though it helps to have practice but I just not into games or seeing the scared look in his eyes. Lol

I would rather just be forward with my intentions but apparently it's too manly of an approach.

So how subtle do you have to be?

Asking for a friend. 🙄

I know its all about how attractive she is but I am crushingly bored right now and looking for something interesting to read. Lol
And yes aware men only respond to attractive women, so wondering what attractive women do when and if they actually flirt with men.
For science yanno.
Sinday in the badlands
Posted:May 12, 2019 8:34 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2019 11:44 am
Sunny day and no rain in sight.

But still looking for that majic button to great sex.
Not just any ol'sex, but that soul freeing, body melting, ... yanno that kind that just a thought of it brings a flush of heat.

Enjoy the rest of the day
No emotional attachment
Posted:May 11, 2019 2:05 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2019 10:42 am

And having the perfect body.

So that is the two main points for the sex doll sales in Canada.
I find it fascinating, the dolls that is, the amount of detail and work that goes it them. They are even being sold with some computer add ons like moaning, and even easy 'conversation'.
So why don't more men use them
No emotional needs, no conversation, you don't have to even think about thier pleasure, no need for pillow talk, no dinner, no effort, and you dont have to worry whether she will be fat or 'not attractive' or 'old.

I have checked them out a few times for various reasons, even the male dolls ate interesting but I'm waiting for more the AI plus moving ones as I would require it to move his hips. Lol
But I have been looking for a mannequin for shibari rope practice and started looking at those real dolls, but a bit expensive just to practice rope stuffs on.

Then I started reading the sales pitch on a few of those sites and found that they mentioned the "no emotional attachment" a few times.
I get it, I really do, the not wanting to have romantic relationships, but is it that bad to see the living self cleaning fleshlight as a real person?

Anyway, sidetracked, now I better get back to my search for a mannequin with moveable arms. Lol

Enjoy the day
Question for humpday
Posted:May 8, 2019 10:06 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2019 1:28 pm
Guys, what are your thoughts around women that enjoy sex?

Not just the women doing sex to make you happy, but the ones that actually enjoy sex because they just, well, enjoy it. I know lots of people use sex just to dump a load or fill an empty spot inside them (no pun intended), like the hookup people that flood dating sites. I'm not questioning that.

Relationship material? Hookup only? What have you?

Enjoy the mid week day its all downhill from here!
Question of the day
Posted:May 7, 2019 3:58 pm
Last Updated:May 8, 2019 3:52 pm
if you prefer thin attractive blond women, would you still meet with a brunette? Or any other type of woman? Or as long as shes blonde its all good?

And saying "it depends" is a lazy copout, of course it depends on how attractive and easy the brunette is yada yada yada.
Banana comparison pretty much the same idea. Lol

Yeppers, I really do wonder about these kinda things.
Must be the weather
Posted:May 6, 2019 7:14 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2019 7:07 am

I wanted to jill off to my porn stash the other day and it was gone!

I have used a photo vault app for a few years now and on occasion it deletes itself then I lose my photos n vids. But I would just have to reinstall the app and ALL content is restored even the deleted ones.
This time though scammers must have control of the app because it wants access to make and manage phone calls. No friggen way! So all those photos and vids are gone, with only a portion backed up.

Anyhoo, on to jilling off.
I made do the first time because I was that horny and needed release, so I went with my imagination.
The next few times was a struggle though.... talk about flipping thru the pages trying to find the right images to set off my orgasms.

Needing visual stimulation and flipping thru the images in my head, and most landed on a big ol'nope wont do and hell NO wtf! thats a ladyboner killer today
I tried a few ex lovers, nope
I tried cowboy casanova, but I can just remember his laughing eyes and the way they sparkled green blue, his .... hes been passed on for 5 yrs now, so the fap Images are disappearing. Ahem..
My ex with the soft black hair, green eyes, soft hands and the way he touched my skin, then the reasons for our breakup flooded around almost killing the mood.
I tried my memory on my porn but Nope because there's nothing tying it to real life physical stimulation.

I ended up weirdly using a blank face and forced myself to picture just a hard cock entering. Which has become one of my go-to fap imaging - just the basic hard cock and certain body positions (not that detached disinterested doggy style where you don't even touch my body).
But I have also jilled off to the thoughts of having a trusting, fun, passionate, sexual partner ... those have been super hot sessions to the point of almost squirt worthy.

But right now I just needed the visual stimulation to get a couple of orgasms out to take the edge off my day. As sometimes I am not in the mood for elaborate thinkin around my orgasms.

Enjoy your day, apparently I have to charge my toys up today.
Sinday coffee
Posted:May 5, 2019 10:09 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2019 6:49 am
It's a busy one in the badlands and not a stitch of rain in sight. So off to buy a irrigation pump or two earlier than anticipated.
Apparently its gonna be a hot summer, as we are already seeing fire bans and warnings.

But lets see
What is going on in little miss flower's life this last week...
Not much really. Lol
I had to work through the urge to coddiwomple.
I finally told the ex-casual I'm done being used for online play and sexting ... at this point in my life I need than every few months so I would rather go without.
Looking after aging parents is trying at times. (Probs payback 😆)

Where does that leave me?

Mentally tired today. So much so that I had one of my sleepless night. Lol
I will also work through this, like I do with everything else, it takes time and some mental gymnastics.

Coffee is almost done, time to get back out to the garden. My little brother stopped by this mornin and fixed my tiller (he's the heavy duty mechanic, and I am swamped with yardwork and I needed the hand).
My gardens are much larger this year because I will be selling greens by the box this year.... and the waitlist is already there. Lol

Enjoy the Sinday
Friday in the sun
Posted:May 3, 2019 12:51 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2019 5:51 pm
Its a beautiful spring day here in the badlands.

I typically browse writings on the kink site and came across this:

least I am not the only woman over 40 wondering When.

Enjoy the day!


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