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I used to put this stuff on my profile... thank god for the blogs.... hehe
First of all...
I once had this experience with a couple that changed my approach to the lifestyle, and the meaning of it for me personally. I thank this couple, (who happen to be a large part of my world) they gave me one of the precious priceless gifts that can't be given from anywhere but ones heart and soul. I'm truely a better person for knowing them. It changed each different aspect of my play ideals, not to mention in daily life.
Couples.....
I dont play with couples cuz I want one or the other, I am single, and like most single women I love the whole idea of a soul mate. I've yet to find them, however I do believe that it's more than possible to find that person, or the lost part of oneself, depending on how you look at it. I am honored that the couples that I do share myself with trust, enjoy, and offer me a very intimate piece of themselves. I cherish this, and I think that may be the reason I tend not to be a threat to any of the people I include in my world. It's not that I want one or the other, (I think that's dangerous) It's that I think the connection, and relationship is special. I am attracted to the bond, and the experience. I am friends with the couples that I have played/still play with...And I wouldn't have it any other way.
Women,
Long ago I didn't get along with many women. I tend not to understand the whole catty, gossip (not that I don't ever do any of this) fake, and most of all....Need to cause pain to ppl who they feel threatened by. I do feel this stuff from time to time, I do gossip in some form, I get a bit green on a small scale, but then again...Not all women are like that. I've found the women that aren't have become some of the most wonderful support, lovers, shoulders, not to mention understanding parts of my world. I'm more confident and walk with a class I wouldn't turn in for the world. (thank you)
Men-
Hmmmm...Some of you actually get me. *grins* I have a friend that I met on here, he truly gets the part of me that I find many people don't even realize exists. I am very animated, and my face/eyes will reveal what I'm thinking or feeling...It's a curse really, but then again, much more difficult to lie. *Grins* Anyway, I have embraced this person as a playmate, friend, and most of all confidant. I recently knocked on his door and just stood there looking at him. He squinted for a min, then said "Get ur ass in here and tell me what's going on with you" I didn't warn him, I just showed up. I wasn't planning on it, but I was driving and just wound up at his place. I cried and he just was there. He was my saving grace that night. I realized that some people do get me, on all levels, and I'm truly lucky to have some of the friends that I have been so graciously gifted with. (thank you to u too)
What I want....
The Fairy Tale...Thought you knew!
If this were a perfect world without labels i'd just be me. However, I'm not...I am a swinger, I do embrace my oddities, and most of all, I'm "BI" not because I want to have my cake and lick the frosting (laughs but I would if it were cake) Or that I am confused, because I'm not. It's an attraction to both genders, and neither of them are even comparable. I get something very different from a woman then I do a man. I am attracted to different things about the two, and I love the effect, attraction, and friendship in two very different capacities.
If I had to stand by and choose, I couldn't. If I have a man, from time to time I need to have a woman, be it with both of us, or just me. If I have a gf then I need a man from time to time. I couldn't stand in front of both and say hmmm well if I had to chose I would pick you. I would just chose neither. Why chose? I can't get the same thing from a man i do a woman, nor do I give the same thing to a man that I do a woman. Both of these fill different parts of me, which would be the only way I'd feel complete. Take one away and I'm forever left with a void in that spot. I'd rather not do that....
Yes I would love to have someone to explore life with, to have as a constant...But they have to be my equal, I'm not a mom, financial guru (after i leave work) nor am I less than. I need someone strong, that can keep up with me, not bothered by my independence, and that can be the support in when needed. I can be needy, insecure, and less than graceful from time to time...I need this at those times.
Christmas...../Family
My family means the world to me. My sister and I are unusually close (no not close) just have a very powerful bond that has created this invis chord between us...only we can break that. I need her, I value her opinions, and if you don't get along with her (which i'm not sure is possible) then life may not work in my lil world for someone who was interested. I have given my family away before, now I know just how much they mean to me.
My sis and I are helping take care of our grandfather, He has terminal cancer, it's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I literally helping my grams, sis, and Grandpa as he slowly dies. He's my Mighty Oak, my hero, and the wisest man I know. Between him and my Dad, the check list for a man in my world is pretty intense. But I can't imagine not having a least a few of their qualities. They can't hurt, both of them found their soul mates...Can't hurt.
Anyway,
I dont want to be married, but I do want to be loved. I can't have kids, but I love them and the innocence they emit from their entire being. I love my animals, for they love with no bounds. I cherish this life, and the gifts it's ever bestowing upon me.
That's me, that's what I've evolved to since being here....
And yes, I too made my rounds at first, but either you find ur nitch....Find you we're wrong and this isn't for you...Or you love it and apply it to your life in some capacity.
Hope ya enjoyed reading.....
Always
SerendipitysKiss
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Anticipation & Mental Stimulation!
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Posted:Feb 8, 2006 7:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2014 12:02 am
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That morning I woke up knowing that I was going to see this man. I had been approached in the only way that gets my attention anymore.
~Mental Stimulation~
mmmm....It's one thing to be physically stimulated, but to have someone reach inside of your thoughts, stir curiosity, provoke the imagination, and mmmmm just make you want more. That's what I've come to love. This one email did that for me. It couldn't be denied, I officially rented this guy a space in my mind which he often stirs the senses.
I spent the whole day hoping that I would get to run into him, tho telling myself that it wasn't going to happen so I didn't harbor any expectations. So the three of us set out for the super bowl party, (late as usual) and drove down to the m&g spot for Sundays.
My sister and friend both let lose and were being crazy as is the norm for us, while not completely able to stay on topic due to a wandering mind I decided to shoot pool to take my mind off him.
We were getting ready for the jaunt back to sac, when I thought hmmmm....I'm just going to see if he's going to show. So I text him, thinking he would be getting ready for bed and we should go. Then I heard it, SOS....(yup that's my text ring) I literally shook with anticipation. Foreplay! That's what this was, and ooooo it was working. I hit the read button and I saw his words, I'm on my way.
*Blushing* I suddenly forgot how to play a game I've been playing for years. I couldn't keep my mind on anything.
SC said to me "YOU?!!!? Nervous? omg I never thought I'd see the day" I retorted with nervous laughter, and said....When they make me feel like this yeah. She was floored that I was transformed into a very fidgety mind wandering woman that was nothing of the confident sometimes obnoxious wild spirit that she was so used to.
As he got closer, I could feel the butterflies in my stomach flutter more, my game was getting even more erratic, and I couldn't stop checking to make sure everything looked ok. Hair? check! Eyes? check! Butt in these jeans? Check!
The text messaging became my tormentor. With the master of the game holding his taunting device in his hand. I must have looked at the door every two seconds, my heard racing, wringing hands, and nervous laughter at nothing in particular. Then the moment came. I got yet another text.
~~~~~I'm here!
I lost my breath. OMG What if he doesn't like me? What if I don’t look like my profile pic's, hair is too short, eyes not blue enough, etc etc. The fear of rejection, mixed with the anticipation, and knowing that I none of those things were out of place.
I heard the door nearest to me open. I had my back to it watching one of my friends shoot, I almost didn't but I just had to. I turned! OMG my heart about left my chest. I laughed and walked around the pool table like a school girl with a crush on the hot guy. I looked at him and as he found his way to a chair, caught my gaze with his. I blushed from my toes to the tips of my hair.
I grabbed a stool next to him and smiled.
"Hey you!"
He looked at me with that playful gleam in his eyes.
"Well I made it"
mmmmm......and still even now I feel the butterfly’s anticipation of our next encounter..
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What's the point of being you then?????
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Posted:Jan 15, 2006 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2006 2:15 am
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Alright ya'll....Something very interesting occured the other day. I know that my first thought was OMG UR KIDDING RIGHT?? But now that I've pondered it for a while. I'd like to know what you think.
My sister and I have met quite a few ppl on this site, and I must say....Some of them have become a very important part of my world. I've been quite content with my world since I came to this site, and I have grown so very much. I can remember a time when I didn't want anyone to know that I liked both sexs, or that I didn't get off unless the sex was a bit unusual. No matter what I like tho, I never thought one of us would act like those who look down their nose at "swingers, bi-sexual, group, whatever....(insert lable here)* would cross that line, to the pointer insted of being pointed at. *sighs*
I have gone thru my fazes on this site, and now yes...I'd like to have somone to spoon with, to hold me, or just watch tv with. Not marriage, but come on we all need love at some point. Anyway, I wonder how many people actually think the way this person does.
So please respond....
I heard someone say the other day that they needed to change their playpeople and playthings becuase now they want to have a "Relationship" To find someone special to spend time with. So because of this decision they needed to change their group of friends. I think the exact words were..."I'm ready to have a relationship again, so I need to change my circle of friends because I am not meeting the kind of ppl I'd share that with."
Maybe I'm over sensative, however, what does that mean? Does that mean people that you've hung out with, become friends with, SLEEPWITH -the sleeping part, or even share a large part of your world with are just good enough to have sex with, but hey, ur not good enough to take home to mom?
SOOOOOOOOOOO............My question is, Would you rather have someone reserved, possibly unaware of their wild side, denying what they may enjoy? Or someone who has faced a world full of lables, and the possible judgement which usually points to "slut" or whatever...??? Is it really easier to turn your back on this part of your life, and pick someone who isn't of this "lifestyle" And when it comes down to it, doesn't that make you what we all seem to hate?
I dont know the answer, I do know I wont change being the freespirit I am only to store that part of me away until it explodes or I resent the very reason I decided to make that change in the first place?
I have seen a few people do this, and in the end, I see them back here. Why can't we make it work together, wouldn't it be nice to feel whole, instead of having to hide a piece of you which very well may be why we never feel compeletely fufilled?
HELLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP hehe i feel so lost.
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Friend Finder Guide Book 101
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Posted:Dec 31, 2005 9:48 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2014 11:45 pm
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Sound familuar?
*truely laughs*
About a year ago, there was a new group built, it is called affbootcamp. I love this group, I've had my run in's with it, but I have also been a member since only five members were posting. I must commend the creator she has done an outstanding job running it. *Grins*
Now, I'm doing this to get it out there once again, there are rules and they should be respected. Mostly just common sense but hey what the hell, lets see what we can contribute to make this the peace love and sex on the rocks site that it should be.
I would love for you to post and add whatever comes to mind. I will give ya the first five...
(yes this has been done, I was the one who created it last time, so I thought we could use a refresher)
Rule Ah Numba One.....
If you can't read the persons profile due to membership status, then ask before assuming that you know what someone wants. The tasts on this site vary from very simular, to extreamly different. Something I find sexy may be vulgar to someone else, offenseive, or even trigger a bad memory. If we use the mannors we were taught as a in PRESCHOOL, then people may not get the sarastic bitch slap or the verbal tongue lashing that is so common when approached sideways.
Rule Ah Numba Two.....
Sometimes people dont like to share, and if they dont, and you take it upon yourself to endulge, war will surely begin, and war on this site is downright dirty dirty, painful, and hard to mend once shreaded. So please do your homework...If someone has a testamonial about a person you wish to hook up with, confirm they are no longer involved. (common sense) BUT I've had this happen, and the outcome was painful, but a lesson learned. Ask, or watch, you will figure out if they are currently preoccupied.
Rule Ah Numba Three.....
Dont use peoples given names in the chat room. If you are a man then realize some of us have people we would rather not know our names, be it due to stalking, obsession, dislike, or whatever the reason. ITS DANGEROUS for us women to give out our names in the chatroom. Believe me, it's worth it to just take my advice on that.
Rule Numba FOURRRRRRRRRRRR...........
If you are a single woman playing with a couple...I dont care who found you and who brought you ALWAYS ALWAYS follow the woman. Gage her energy, her moods, and her comfort level. It's always the best and safest way to go. You might actually be supprised at the outcome....
Rule Numbaaaa FIVEEEEEEEEEEE...........
If you are sending a pic with your email, and there is more than one person in the pic, *makes face* Would ya puuuuhhhhleeeze let us know which one you are??? It makes life a bit easier. *smirks*
ur turn add something ya might like ppl to know.
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