Swingers: Mentally Healthier Than Monogamous Peers
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Posted:Jan 27, 2019 3:11 pm
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2019 5:12 pm
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After 7 years SWINGING togther as a couple I think it may be true to say that both men and women who swing may have some important mental health strengths!
One of the traits that determines happiness and mental health is flexibility: the capacity for creativity, abstract thinking, and adapting to changing circumstances. When it comes to the sex lives of swingers that we have experinced, there’s no question that they are more flexible in their approach to sex than their monogamous counterparts. But the real question is more complex: Is flexibility toward sex a good thing or a bad thing?
Distinguishing characteristic we have found is that couples who swing have less fear than monogamous couples. What’s more, they cheat less!
In terms of the fear, monogamous couples often fall into the toxic jealousy trap, afraid that a particular behavior or gesture might lead to a full-fledged affair and the end of the relationship. Monogamous couples also often fear that their best days are behind them, that they lost the opportunity for sexual excitement in favor of settling down and getting married. On the other hand, swinging couples are often deeply in love and emotionally connected, but they don’t value sex in the same way their monogamous peers do.
When it comes down to the nitty-gritty, the dividing line is all about the values any couple holds toward sex.
In our experience we have found that monogamous couples are often judgmental about a sex life that is anything other than monogamous, while swinging couples often espouse more of a live-and-let-live attitude. In other words, they’re often less judgmental of couples who choose to live a monogamous lifestyle.
For us, not only has swinging greatly enriched our sex life, it has also helped us learn so much more about ourselves and human nature!!!
VIVA SWINGING FOLKS!
Mel xxx
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Ways to surprise your other half
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Posted:Dec 11, 2018 1:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 2:17 pm
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I Love to surprise Andy and have new adventures and being rather mishevious I put into action my latest hair brain scheme!!!...A trip to a local brothel!!!
Whilst he waited in the car, I nipped in and chatted with The Madam ( if that's how one refers to her!) She was highly amused and entertained by my request, to pay for Andy to spend an hour with one of her girls whilst I watched!!!...got the impression that might have been a first for her and her girls!
A very pleasant hour was so spent, more so for Andy then me I might add, but we both loved every moment and would highly recommend a visit to spice ones sex life up!!!
FYI...had to pay extra for Andy to have his cock sucked "sans" condom.
The highlight for me was whilst she was sucking Andys cock, he asked if I could possibly join in to my delight!!! She looked surprised but to her credit said yes, and then to my great amusement said "how do we do that"!!!...Believe you me folks...I led the way! Lol
Do let me know if you have ideas re more surprises I can spring!!!!
Mel
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