A Tantri Guide to Women's Sexual Fulfillment - MUST READ FOR ALL!!
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張貼於:2017年 1月 19日 8:38 pm
最近編輯過:2019年 7月 27日 12:59 am 7146 瀏覽
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II discovered this article on the Blog of a world respected Certified Tantric Practitioner while waiting for a business meeting to start. Needless to say that I wasn't able to complete the article before having to run o ut to my car to take matters into my own hands so that I could function during the meeting.....I hope you enjoy this....
Even though it appears that adults are knowledgeable about sex, sexual anatomy and sexual functioning. In my experience of having worked with thousands of people, the important subject of sexual relations remains under an obscure cloud of confusion in the minds of many.
Too often, a woman tries to force her sexual response to become like a man. This happens because both men and women are unaware of their opposite and yet complimentary natures in regards to sex.
The woman has three areas in her genital region, which are important for sexual orgasm to take place, the clitoris (and clitoral network inside her body), a nerve in the sacrum (which is the trigger for orgasm), and the vagina, (where contractions of orgasm take place.)
Generally, a woman will become aroused firstly through touching, caressing, kissing or holding her entire body in deep loving embrace. She needs to experience a quality heart connection before opening up sexually. This slow buildup of arousal may take approximately 20 minutes. The woman has 3—5 thousand nerve endings in her clitoris all devoted to pleasure. These nerves come from erogenous zones all over her body. When she is touched and embraced, these nerves all over the body are activated, and her clitoris simultaneously ‘wakes up.’
It is best not to go directly to the clitoris as a way of stimulating a woman. A more teasing approach works much better. Nipples have nerves linked directly with the clitoris, so touching and massaging her breasts is of great importance.
If a lover holds the lower belly of his beloved, and simply remains present with her, within a few minutes, she will begin either laughing or crying. This is signal that her second chakra is open. The second chakra of the woman is of tremendous importance for her to open up sexually, as it is from her lower belly that she will be able to discover the phenomenon of multiple orgasms. Emotional fluidity helps a woman to know all the joys of her sexual response, and a man needs to discover how to be comfortable just holding space while the woman moves into emotive waves.
Stroking the outer lips of her Yoni, her inner thighs, slowly and teasingly working your way to her inner lips, and finally encircling her clitoris with wet fingers or tongue, will drive her wild.
When her yoni is copiously wet, and her outer lips, inner lips and clitoris are in erection, then it is time to move into penetrative sexual union. A woman is changeable according to where she is in her monthly cycle, so the approach to her sacred portal may be different each time.
After having one orgasm, a woman’s body remains on an orgasmic plateau for at least 20 minutes, ready for more orgasms. If a man has his orgasm before she has enjoyed more orgasms, she may be very frustrated with the sex act. The game ended just as she was getting started!
In ancient Taoist Tantric texts, it is stated that a skilled lover will stimulate the woman at precise points and in particular ways, all over her body as part of the build up for sexual union. He is advised not to move into penetration unless she begs him to, with tears in her eyes because she is so aroused that she cannot wait anymore!
In our culture, of instant coffee and instant everything, we have forgotten the joys of slow food and slow sex. A woman has been designed by existence to savour timeless, intimate and loving sexual union. For women’s sexual fulfillment, the art of Tantra is not a luxury. It is a necessity
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Valuable instructions for those considerijng meeting ANYONE offline!!!
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張貼於:2018年 6月 9日 6:28 am
最近編輯過:2020年 12月 15日 10:02 pm 1879 瀏覽
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As a former chat room monitor for an 80s era ISP AOHELL, we always cautioned both men and women to meet in a public place before going on to other exploits.
First, meetings should always be casual, last maybe an hour at best and have no expectations set or agreed upon in advance other than to say hello and have a cup of coffee, kind of a feeling out like an initial job interview....
NEVER drink alcohol during the meet and greet....cocktails are too easily spiked. Make sure to maintain eye contact with any food or beverages you consume. AND this should be discussed before finalizing the initial meet.,,,,ALWAYS agree that as adults if we are NOT getting the level of chemistry or "vibe" or if there are ANY red flags then either party can terminate THIS meeting, No harm, no foul.
Moving onto the date
You should always tell a close trusted friend or loved one (NOT TEENAGE KIDS!!) where you are going, who you are meeting and what time you expect to be home. Leave your dates name and phone number as well. Next set a time to check in by phone, NOT TEXT MESSAGE. Set up code words for danger or safe conditions. Not checking in within a reasonable period of time, like say 30 minutes IMMEDIATELY sets off alarms and calls to the authorities. NEVER assume otherwise! It is best to err on the side of caution than to trust an unknown person! If you agree that your date might last multiple hours such as a road trip or multiple events then ALWAYS set up multiple check-ins!
This might seem like a LOT of trouble to through for what appears to be a harmless little date, but things can turn sour quickly should you have a disagreement or they get too aggressive physically for your comfort level. Remember, NO ALWAYS MEANS NO!
I even take things a bit further. Take notes during any phone calls or emails prior to your date. Do not be afraid to get nosey. Find out who they are employed by and where they live (approximately). Do they have any family nearby? If you agree to meet at one location then drive together to another, take little precautions that might save your life! As you move from one car to another a take 2 seconds and copy their license plate number on your cell AND a piece of paper. Next, educate yourself/ Watch an online police show like LIVEPD or similar or stop by your local police station and ask an on-duty officer how they perform a traffic stop in the field. Observe how an officer approaches a car that they stopped for a violation. They ALWAYS approach from the left rear, checking the back seat area for possible lurkers. Next, they put their RIGHT-HAND thumb and palm prints on the driver side rear fender so as to leave evidence should the car you are riding in gets dumped or swapped.
And lastly, I recommend that you run a quick, low-cost (about $7.50) background check online to check for arrest records, warrants or questionable behaviors..even if they have been dismissed! ALWAYS go with your gut feelings, NOT your loins!!
Better to be safe than sorry!!
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