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HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/22/2019 12:13 am


I thought BBM was the term used


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/22/2019 12:55 am

Well . . . .for most of the hetero world a guys actual shape is sort of meaningless, I mean physical fitness is important more from a health and endurance prospective but except for gay men, people really aren't that interested in what guys look like . .are they?

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
8/22/2019 1:22 am

BBM is the term. Bears is the term for male on male. I love both ~~


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
8/22/2019 1:24 am

Why bother with labels at all? By now, you know what body type and character interest you in potential partners, so it comes down to proximity and the "vibe" you get from meeting them as to whether things progress.

From a health perspective the BBW/BBM label can normalise some people who are grossly over weight and perhaps does more harm than good. Ultimately, these people are the arbiters of if they chose to do something about it or not, of course.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
8/22/2019 1:25 am

Whenever someone asks me what my body type is, I just reply that I'm "in shape".

Hey, round is a shape!

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


SinnerD69 31M

8/22/2019 2:41 am

I have no idea what’s going on


562guy_inthe671 57M
51 posts
8/22/2019 2:50 am

I don't know, I don't dwell on it...


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/22/2019 3:04 am

well from a womans perspectiveI i really dont want sex with someone overweight because of my disability ..doctors orders but my choice as well...too many end up with heart problems while having sex ..The ER is always busy with such things ....men coming in with heart problems ,high blood pressure and pushing themselves ..its not fun


Enygma2007 43M
123 posts
8/22/2019 5:59 am

Lol


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
8/22/2019 10:57 am

BHM - Big Handsome Man - is an acronym I've seen. But it doesn't get used anywhere as much as BBW does. More often, I've seen men use sports terms like swimmer's build, linebacker build, bodybuilder to describe themselves. Oh, and more recently, dad bod.


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
8/22/2019 7:15 pm

I'm in shape, round is a shape.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


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