Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service

Member Deleted Post  

posts

Member Deleted Post


This post has been deleted by

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
10/15/2018 5:22 pm

i agree with you...

personally, if the person is coming out of a relationship, i would stay away from the person...until the person is well healed...

the rebound relationship never works... i don't wanna be a crutch... the healing comes from the within, and the person should spend enough time to heal and find him/her self before jumping in a new relationship...

otherwise, the new relationship would be very toxic...

▀▄▀▄▀▄ ▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄ ▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄

𝕨𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕘𝕤

Hello,

My comment here will serve its purpose, but next time when you post your blog, remember to put the first comment by yourself. It will make your post to show up in the "Recently Blog Posts". Otherwise, your post will never show up anywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs.

The first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special. People just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too.

There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to check other bloggers' posts, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to leave your foot prints in their blogs, and you will get to know more people as you mingle and reciprocate!

And if you are a standard member, you can set up a private inbox, so even if you can't communicate with other members though mails, you still can communicate though your blogs.

Happy blogging, and let us know if you have any other questions in regards to the blogs, we are happy to assist you.


Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
10/15/2018 5:35 pm

Very true.....


niaff16 28M

10/15/2018 5:42 pm

yes, true


Aes604 49M
46 posts
10/15/2018 9:38 pm

Yeah I disagree. If you are strong-minded well-rounded person but have been hurt by someone you love or lost love. Sometimes just having some fun with somebody isn't a bad thing. It isn't malicious. If you were upfront and honest about just wanting to have some fun hang out maybe some contact physical or emotional that can be a good thing. Especially if you are lost love isn't so much because of you and if you're looking for that on this site specifically from the descriptions people leave and the pictures they have on here deep and meaningful relationships is not the goal.. And learning and growth doesn't take a millennia. It takes self-knowledge and self thought. You will never be healed completely you will never be so fully aware of your own self. And if you are you ignored the lessen the pain and suffering was there to cause. You are always carry that with you if you grow and learn it's important to not let it Define you is the best solution


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/19/2018 3:16 pm

    Quoting japaneseass:
    i agree with you...

    personally, if the person is coming out of a relationship, i would stay away from the person...until the person is well healed...

    the rebound relationship never works... i don't wanna be a crutch... the healing comes from the within, and the person should spend enough time to heal and find him/her self before jumping in a new relationship...

    otherwise, the new relationship would be very toxic...

    ▀▄▀▄▀▄ ▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄ ▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄

    𝕨𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕘𝕤

    Hello,

    My comment here will serve its purpose, but next time when you post your blog, remember to put the first comment by yourself. It will make your post to show up in the "Recently Blog Posts". Otherwise, your post will never show up anywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs.

    The first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special. People just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too.

    There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to check other bloggers' posts, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to leave your foot prints in their blogs, and you will get to know more people as you mingle and reciprocate!

    And if you are a standard member, you can set up a private inbox, so even if you can't communicate with other members though mails, you still can communicate though your blogs.

    Happy blogging, and let us know if you have any other questions in regards to the blogs, we are happy to assist you.
if the person is coming out of a relationship, ... That person needs to get right back out into the dating world , accompanied by friends. ....Dating.... Not serious relationships.

There are millions of people everyday who go through breakup, serious or casual. They should not be staying home drying their tears, they need to get out in the dating world [maybe accompanied by friends] and maintain social contact with those who are out there, who just want to date, and not want commitments .

"Broken" can mean many different variations. "Upset" is not a serious "Broken". Keep going out. .....Go home, if you get unhappy, but keep going out.


MDFLYBOY4FUN 43M
1 post
10/30/2018 10:38 pm

    Quoting Aes604:
    Yeah I disagree. If you are strong-minded well-rounded person but have been hurt by someone you love or lost love. Sometimes just having some fun with somebody isn't a bad thing. It isn't malicious. If you were upfront and honest about just wanting to have some fun hang out maybe some contact physical or emotional that can be a good thing. Especially if you are lost love isn't so much because of you and if you're looking for that on this site specifically from the descriptions people leave and the pictures they have on here deep and meaningful relationships is not the goal.. And learning and growth doesn't take a millennia. It takes self-knowledge and self thought. You will never be healed completely you will never be so fully aware of your own self. And if you are you ignored the lessen the pain and suffering was there to cause. You are always carry that with you if you grow and learn it's important to not let it Define you is the best solution
You Sir, NAILED IT! There is no prescribed amount of time. No relationship, factors or dynamics are alike. As well we are each different people. The healing process is real but different for us all. Being self aware and mindful of your actual position is what is most important. Every experience in life is a lesson and should be used for individual growth. Learning lessons is great but remember that you cant change destiny and need to live life on life's terms. Play the cards you are dealt. Enjoy the ride and never take your eye off the prize... mine is simply to be happy. That looks different for everyone. Though the most intelligent and experienced will have the most simplest picture of what happiness truly is. And yes it starts with loving yourself. If it feels right, go with it. Just remember to be honest with yourself and everyone that matters around you.


Become a member to create a blog