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Back to the old question...  

PreferNudity 56M
0 posts
7/31/2018 8:07 am
Back to the old question...

To pay for a membership or not to pay. I've noticed emails have started coming out of the woodwork. One from a real person nearby, but a bunch of others arrived overnight from really attractive 20- or 30-something women 500 miles away (Because I have time to drive/fly to meet them).

I've enjoyed the freedom of full access to the site, but I don't know if I've enjoyed it enough to pay. IM is free and is instant access to other folks. Cams cost me 20 points to watch and I can only watch one at a time. Blogs are probably the most entertaining to me and they are free to view.

To pay or not to pay. That is the question.

RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
7/31/2018 8:30 am

 It is only possibly worthwhile if there are lots of active people near where you live. IM simply can't be relied upon, but bizzrely, the chat rooms always work!


PreferNudity replies on 7/31/2018 12:22 pm:
I've found just the opposite. I think geography makes a big difference. IM seems to work well around here. I don't go to the chat rooms much because they seem sparsely populated.

benard69 66M/66F  

7/31/2018 8:33 am

 90% of this site is generated bullshit...


PreferNudity replies on 7/31/2018 12:24 pm:
I 90% agree with you. There are few locals near me that are very real. I'm pretty sure most of them (and there seems to be certain shared characteristics) are BS.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/31/2018 8:43 am

 It depends a lot on the number of active women near where you live. There are not a lot near me and I have interacted with many of them. Age is also a factor.

I find IM works well for me. I have contacted, and been contacted, and met women via IM a number of times. IMO those who complain about IM either don't know how to use it or do a poor job of who, or how, they contact women.

If you blog or do other activities you can get points which allows you to make contact.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


PreferNudity replies on 7/31/2018 12:27 pm:
I agree with you. I blog now and then, however few locals respond. And I'll take the points. It makes sense to reward those who participate, comment, write, load photos, etc.

pineconer9 73M
Ask me for a photo
245 posts
7/31/2018 10:02 am

 I have not had the opportunity to connect on a blog as of yet.. but I do agree that the IM does not work all the time as if when I get a message and answer then it does not go


PreferNudity replies on 7/31/2018 12:30 pm:
I think people the system has a hard time recognizing when someone has signed off the site. It might show them on messenger or online. I get little frustrated when I IM someone and they don't respond back. Someone should write a book of Passion etiquette. That way we can all read it and ignore it.

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