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Threesomes and Moresomes Feminist pornographer Erika Lust and a slew of surveys say threesomes are the most popular sexual fantasies for both men and women. A famed feminist porn director claims she knows the most common kink that men and women share. Erika Lust says both sexes want threesomes and sex which are their most common fantasies. Lust said moresomes are increasingly popular in the fantasy roster. “(It’s) Threesomes or sex in general,” Lust told News.. “Not everybody wants to do it, but everybody is thinking about it or almost everybody would like to experience least a video situation.” The sultry Swede, who has been making sexxx-rated cinema since 2007, said her claims are backed up by solid research — not just anecdotal evidence. A 2018 study from Ball State University tried to get to the bottom of people’s sex fantasies. The study found that multiple-partner sex was top of the bawdy bucket list. Study leader, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, said his team interviewed 4,5 people to determine what made men and women tick in the sack. An eye-popping 89% admitted they’d fantasized about having threesomes. Interestingly, for women, it often includes their partner and not merely a of faceless strangers. Straight males were more likely to lust over two women, while gender didn’t matter as much for female participants. Recent findings in the American Sex Survey echoed that sentiment/ The poll showed that % of adults have had a threesome before while another 21% fantasized about hormone-charged hijinks with more than one person the same time. Threesomes and sex were followed by BDSM and infidelity as other popular fantasies. Lust, 42, now lives in Barcelona and says she’s on a mission to give women a voice in the multi-billion dollar porn industry. She wants to create a generation of “informed masturbators” and Lust is hoping these women will change the frequently misogynistic porn industry. The result will be “saved sex lives” and relationships. “We are all so afraid that other people will not accept our kinks,” Lust said. “That we are strange. That we are perverse, that we are different from everyone else and the funny thing is that we are not. _______________  I myself have had mfm which were fantastic experiences. I have met couples but there was always something off in my meets, probably not enough experience and screening on my part to find the right couple. What about you had a threesome or more, still on the bucket list? |
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well to be honest I've been in a few MFM 3somes and part of a gangbang twice. still hoping to have a FMF 3some some day...
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Yes had fmf and mfm, all good fun x
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Never had the pleasure but always a fantasy.
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10/28/2019 6:22 pm |
Id love to have my first threesome.
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Given that pornography has been with us a few thousand years, that we have only enjoyed 35 years of feminist porn is indicative of how far we have yet to go to achieve an honest sex-positive balance. Filmmakers like Erika Lust may indeed hold some of the keys to eroding the stereotyping and misogyny that make sexual relations- to put it mildly- *complicated*. While the data continue to confirm that men dominate porn audiences, women now comprise 25% of Pornhub's visitors- which, by the way, reflects a 10% rise in US female viewers in just one year (in other parts of the world, growth of female interest is more spectacular). In short, women are revealing a taste for visual gratification that belies the stereotype that this is a Y-chromosome phenomenon. Also to your point, women watch pornos involving DP, GB and 3somes more than twice as often as men. And I believe they are onto *something*. That said, I share your experience that *threesomes and moresomes* do not often achieve the *bliss* so tantalizingly displayed in pornos. There is an exponentially greater requirement to share and be shared, as well as a need to not overthink the frenetic vortex surrounding you. However, if you stay calm and give as good as you get, it will all work out fine.
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I have had a few my ex girlfriend ,which was amazing loved them had 1 fmf, but we had more mfm,it is always exciting to see your mate enjoying her self .
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" I would be perfectly satisfied and would rather be with someone who said" if that's what you're looking for you can take a hike!" I'm pretty content with having evolved! Using more than all the road!
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Well I wonder if as many people who say they have had threesomes have really had them. It is still a fantasy for me 
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Well I wonder if as many people who say they have had threesomes have really had them. It is still a fantasy for me
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Given that pornography has been with us a few thousand years, that we have only enjoyed 35 years of feminist porn is indicative of how far we have yet to go to achieve an honest sex-positive balance. Filmmakers like Erika Lust may indeed hold some of the keys to eroding the stereotyping and misogyny that make sexual relations- to put it mildly- *complicated*. While the data continue to confirm that men dominate porn audiences, women now comprise 25% of Pornhub's visitors- which, by the way, reflects a 10% rise in US female viewers in just one year (in other parts of the world, growth of female interest is more spectacular). In short, women are revealing a taste for visual gratification that belies the stereotype that this is a Y-chromosome phenomenon. Also to your point, women watch pornos involving DP, GB and 3somes more than twice as often as men. And I believe they are onto *something*. That said, I share your experience that *threesomes and moresomes* do not often achieve the *bliss* so tantalizingly displayed in pornos. There is an exponentially greater requirement to share and be shared, as well as a need to not overthink the frenetic vortex surrounding you. However, if you stay calm and give as good as you get, it will all work out fine.
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Had a MFM on two occasions, it was lots of fun. On one occasion ended up naked with a group of five, 3F and 2 M, fun.
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i would luv to do MMF or MFF...so sexy
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10/28/2019 8:15 pm |
A very interesting study and kind of psyched that I can at least participate. I have only had one threesome in my life. It was a FFM set up from a Christmas party. I had one your Woman hitting on me when two other young Ladies came over and simply stated why have one when two is more fun. The best part was it was a work Christmas party on a Thursday night so we all had work the next day. The Ladies of course left my house and merely switched dresses. What was cool was they gave me ornaments from a place called "Things Remembered". It was two gold ornaments with photos inside. One photo was them in their dress and the other was them in each other's dress like that day when they went to work. Who said there is no Santa Claus! [post 4254692}
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10/28/2019 8:34 pm |
I've had mfm, fmf, couple swap, and group free for all. I don't really fantasize about any of it much anymore. I do fantasize about individual women. I really feel boring now. 
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three, four, more... It can all be wonderful with the right people.
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Threesomes are a younger adult's dreams. Been there... done that... multiple times. I think once you've tried it , the thrill is gone? 🤔 At least MFM! Now FMF... can be fun! Yeah... threesomes? Nah... Give me one on one with a creative lover. Have you ever tried it? The bed gets crowded. lol 😂 I guess ya have to be in the mood. But to call it 'the most popular fantasy', might be over-stating it! What do you think? 🤔 🔥 💦 😮 🎃 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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A dream....
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Only really into straight one on one with a woman, though there is the odd moment when wanking that I may tink of two women being with me. That MFF scenario tends to exist to experience two sensuous female tongues and mouths kissing and licking and swirling aover my cock and balls and cock head I did once have a short 3sum with, at my time, best mate and his partner. Frankly, deeply unsatisfying as I felt that I was just a total spare prick. Not fun at all, and no desire to go there again
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I agree the order of the letter and capitalizing them matter I have a fantasy as well that will probably remain as such but you never know.
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Had a MFM on two occasions, it was lots of fun. On one occasion ended up naked with a group of five, 3F and 2 M, fun.
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Definitely agree, you need to enjoy the people in the room with you.
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A very interesting study and kind of psyched that I can at least participate. I have only had one threesome in my life. It was a FFM set up from a Christmas party. I had one your Woman hitting on me when two other young Ladies came over and simply stated why have one when two is more fun. The best part was it was a work Christmas party on a Thursday night so we all had work the next day. The Ladies of course left my house and merely switched dresses. What was cool was they gave me ornaments from a place called "Things Remembered". It was two gold ornaments with photos inside. One photo was them in their dress and the other was them in each other's dress like that day when they went to work. Who said there is no Santa Claus! [post 4254692}
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I'm constantly just two women away from a threesome.
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I've had mfm, fmf, couple swap, and group free for all. I don't really fantasize about any of it much anymore. I do fantasize about individual women. I really feel boring now.
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