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Just sharing This is an email I sent recently. It is redacted some, to take out the names of the recipients. They know, as well as my friends know who they are. Also several minor changes were made to clarify for new readers without altering the content. Well, I think enough time has passed, so I can write this a bit calmer. I will first start by saying how sad I am at what you two (*****) are doing to DG. Your “cleaning out” of people that don’t tow whatever weird concept you two now have of a good room. Banning folks that mentioned their concerns. And even getting rid of Superstud, as a DG room member and Moderator (as you did to me as a DG member and Moderator). without any notice or discussion with him, even when you had evidence that he did nothing wrong!!!!!!! Your callous mistreatment , and lies about ***** and banning her after so such faithful service she provided to*** shocked so many regulars, do you think that did not cast a shadow on your integrity?( remember you do not operate in a vacuum, there are many eyes out there). I still have friends in DG , they are also shocked at what DG is turning into. The few mods they see, allowing trolls to run amok. It is apparent now as I reread our last conversation in Best (yes, I did cut and paste every single word of it) that you already decided that you were going to get rid of me for whatever reason you fabricated in your mind. And you did ban me from KR the day before this last discussion in Best, I am not stupid, I knew something was up. And With the lag in the conversation, you were providing ** with the words to say and then since you did not have the nerve, you had him ban me. And don’t pretend to tell me it was a “private” conversation, as*** said it was, I know you left it posted in Best so that all the mods could read it. The shock of reading it caused several to contact me about what went on. That is another example of your dishonesty. You in particular were dishonest in our conversations on “Y”, all of our conversations always ended with us working out whatever we talked about (if you have forgotten, I can give you a copy of each of those conversations). And then you bring them up in our last conversation in Best , saying that I was being disrespectful to you (the copies of our conversations clearly show that you lied to *** on that count). And as for me being a team member, I have been a very successful team leader and member with people of integrity for well over 30 years, always sharing my views, with Leaders and subordinates ,and soliciting their input. My mistake in this case was not realizing that you two had and have no integrity and certainly have no leadership qualities and no experience dealing with people with integrity. And I have come to the conclusion that the “complaints” from the regulars in DG was a fabrication (you two are so willing to violate privacy and promises (like you did to me) , but will not give me any information). By the way, how is the unbanning of**** going for you? As you say, he was such a nice guy. Please, take off your blinders and look at current issues with regulars in DG and their comments, you will see that it is getting more and more apparent that you are messing a good thing up. I have no interest in coming back and am sure you had never considered it anyways. To end on a positive note, thank you for allowing me to be part of DG for a while and making some very good friends. Also I am glad you woke me up and got me out, before the decline of DG started, saved a lot of heart burn for me, I am sure. I just wanted to share my thoughts. |
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they done the same thing to me
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With the permission of the blogger that was also recently banned, here is another example of what is still going on over there. And in particular the actions of one of the "moderators". The link the the blog entry is ,,,Seriously, I was banned from a group for THAT
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A side note, all the moderators that have been banned from DG were almost immediately picked up by other rooms. Show the keen insight that DG management has . Also thanks to all the rooms that recognized and did that
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Just wanted to share an interesting comment from the room owner in reply to the above mentioned blog,,,,(You can take rom the comment what you will) "OMG...PSM, really?? You mentioned the Florida room so many times, should have been banned for life, so long ago!! Are you kidding?? And your constant posting, about real meet and greets?? After 3 mods, ask you, to stop?? Give me a fucking break. Were you banned from 2 rooms?? HELL YES!! They are linked and joined!! Think you are leaving one, and going to another, to start, your chit??? Heavens no....."
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Below is an example of this rooms squashing any mention of bans. The below is a post from their banning thread on their group. Please not the heinous crime the banned person commotted to be banned. Obviously names have been redacted. “Senior Moderator” replies on 10/8/2012 10:10 pm: “Person Banned” (46F) just popping in to say...bye...been nice chatting with some of you....but i am OUT......tc....and everyone watch their backs......... [ 7:52) Obviously she is upset about Pal. Maybe when things cool down she will want to come back but for now better to keep the drama out. Not sure if she did this DG also as i wasnt there?
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oops, no spell check, sorry
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An example of the "caring" fascade that the Senior Moderators of the room have for folks ,, one to your face and a different one behind the scenes. This is a post added to the original ban post that another moderator made. A senior moderator replies on 11/29/2012 2:04 am: awww, this makes me sad.... ...that i wasn't there to see her go! and i DO hope the door hit her ass on the way out.
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adding another ban, another senior mods actions;; Senior moderator 10/23/2012 12:03 am Banned **** for life from both rooms. (He was banned before from DG for disrespect) After rejecting him when he pulled me on his lap and pulled my hair, he said i was fake and i play and i was fucking all the other men why not him too. Very nice man i will miss him. Should be noted was at the same moderators request , that I did the first ban for disrespect to this moderator, and the unban at that moderators request. Lots of good judgement shown again
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Another ban,, such respectful language, from alledgedly "professionals" Senior moderator 11/3/2012 7:00 am Banned ******,,,*****..do it now man...have guts? [ 6:52 AM EDT]Disrespect Moderator,,,, 11/3/2012 7:57 am ****** (30M)*****..do it now man...have guts? [ 6:52 AM EDT] I tried to warn the IDIOT gain, but.......... *********…….10/25/2012 7:38 am Warned **********, a 30 yo *PUNK*, for pulling from the room by naming other chat rooms....I had him loaded, when he finally apologized NO MORE warnings for this one...smart mouth punk..
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I was also banned from Daddys room, and not for being a bitch~ all I did was practice my spanish speaking skills of writwing' and only two sentences were said, The lady in the room said no spanish speaking and I said thats not in the rules, and also to say , there were only 4 ppl in the room....She was very jelouse when two daddys spoke to me and kept there attention on me' and its obvious why' she wants to believe sooooo bad that she looks good so in turn when someone sexy does come in the room for these daddys she gets jelouse' (ALL I DID WAS SAY TWO SENTENCES IN SPANISH)...
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Another ban,, shows the contemptful language used by Senior moderators Senior Moderator,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, 12/17/2012 2:02 am Banned ****** for being a dick and making remarks after i warned him to knock off his attitude with ***** who i was also close to banning because of her shit
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I was pleasently suprised when I saw this alternative group,,A Daddies and Good Girls Forum founded by Please_SeduceMe. She advised me that this is an open room for those people who will not be rude or cause drama.So, if the DG decline is too much for you please visit and join A Daddies and Good Girls Forum
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Saw this in their affiliated room group Ban thread last night.Seems that the Senior Moderators continue to get rid of moderators that don't kiss up. Senior Moderator ,, 12/25/2012 8:01 pm,,,banned moderator Seems to confirm what I told that rooms owner before I was banned,,,The Senior Moderators are not very trust worthy (to me)
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Another interesting ban. Seem it was a foregone conclusion this person was going to be banned, just waiting for the excuse. Shows respect for room members, doesn't it? Becareful who you talk to or make angry. Moderator,,, 12/12/2012 9:16 am,, ******** grey boxing with out permission, been waiting for him to break a rule
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Here is some revisionist history The above moderator ban was posted 12/25/2012 8:01 pm And was the last post on the thread. I just checked and horror of horrors. That post is GONE!!!!! The last post that now shows on the banning thread is 12/25/2012 7:51 pm You judge, is it an accident, or revising history?
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Here is another example of trying to control what DG roomies see and hear. And actually deleting their comments to a thread to hide them from others. The thread that they are referring to was started by a former very valued member of the room that was cast aside after her long time help to the room owner and apparent conflict with a Senior moderator. This is the transcript from the Moderators chat room. Different Senior Mod (F) ****, i am sick of it too, i am going to get nailed for removing it but again its drama. Just like her attack on **** in his thread. [ 4:42 AM ] Senior Mod (29F) someone cannot come in here, betray their supposed loyalty and then cry foul when they feel equally betrayed. it doesn't work that way [ 2:56 AM ] Senior Mod (29F)Anyone who reads it and thinks its inflammatory, delete it. i at least want a moment to say my piece. [ 2:55 AM ] Senior Mod (29F) i posted a response. it'll probably piss people off, and i dont care! im sick of us getting dogged b/c of what WE do to keep the room running. [ 2:54 AM ] Senior Mod (29F) there's a post from ****a last night saying she's leaving DG. gee, we could have used that warning weeks ago... anyway, there's a couple replies and mentions of pal. wondering if it should be removed? [ 2:38 AM ]
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Here is a "warning" no rule violation, just a moderator feeling annoyed. Beware all ye who enter, not saying hello can get you in trouleCOLOR] moderator,,, 10/17/2012 5:40 pm,,, warning given to ******* as it was the fourth time ive seen him troll into the room asking "any woman here for strap on fun?" Have a feeling he's just doing it to be annoying and doesnt even say hello.
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Here is the start of an email chain post the Banning and removal of Superstud as moderator without notice. This is posted with his (Superstuds) permission. Name of the emails author has been replaced with "Owner". The highlights and Bolds are mine for emphasis. Note the attempt at intimidation in the email. There will be more on this exchange in future posts. ROOM OWNER ,, supa, I am sorry, but, this is what, we have observed....you have attended, our last 3 senior mod meetings and only once, when I called you out, did you even apologize! We will allow you in DG & KR, (just not as a Mod) provided, you guarantee, not to speak about it, no drama....sorry everyone, was an Passion issue ( my note: asking him to lie).....we had no choice after everything was copied and pasted to other people. It looked very bad as you appeared half way through our SR. meeting! Then wouldn't leave! We had no choice but to assume it was you!! I hear a word, you talked shit? You are done, otherwise enjoy the group as a member. We will un ban you tonight
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Here is supers response to the above email. Note ,he shares my view of the Senior Moderator cabal and the delusions of the Rooms Management. Again, I have edited out names, affording them anonymity that they really don’t deserve. And added “Bolds” for emphasis. Note that management did know who “transgressed “ and still took action against super. Another forgone conclusion waiting for an excuse to clean house. The rooms are under attack? Utter fantasy. *** when I read your email I was utterly stunned, shocked and mad as hell. Now that I have calmed down considerably, I want to fully address your delusional accusations. I have NEVER attended a single one of your meetings! I did accidently come in the room that one time when you had a meeting but I spoke to everyone immediately and when I realized that it was a meeting I apologized and left. Your claim of having called me out is utter bullshit and you know it. If you had any decency at all you would have come to me and given me the opportunity of defending myself. Then you would have found that I was not in the room and was just a computer glitch but, for some unfathomable reason you and the other senior mods chose to rush to judgment and find me guilty, sentence me and strip me of being a mod and banned from the rooms NOW you offer to let me back in the rooms provided that I don’t talk about what you and the senior mods did to me and how I was falsely accused and allowed no opportunity to defend myself. Well, I think you can guess what my reply is to THAT!!! This may come as a shock to you and your paranoid delusions but I do not care about your meetings, never have, and never will! I have read and reread your email trying to make sense of it but the only conclusion I can come to is judging by your wild accusations I can pinpoint your real problem is that you are paranoid and delusional due to either drug or alcohol addiction. And a perfect example of that is your statement “sorry everyone, was an Passion issue.”(my note: asking super to lie) What the hell does that mean? You seem to think everyone was out to get you. You seriously need help and should see a shrink as soon as possible. I have it on good authority that the person that copied postings from your meeting came forward and cleared me but you chose to ignore that and still blame me. That clearly indicates that you and some of the senior mods are so paranoid that you just won’t accept the truth and would rather believe your paranoid delusions. You said you had no choice but to ban me and strip me of being a mod but you lied! You DID have a choice but you in your delusional paranoid fantasy failed to do the right thing and give me a chance to clear things up. Then you threaten me with.. You talk shit and you are done. Well Mr. ***you can go fuck yourself! The ONLY one talking shit here is YOU and some of the senior mods. But you are right about one thing! I am done with you, your pathetic drama, your childish threats, your shit talking and your rooms! I have done nothing wrong and I have always done my best to make DG and KR the best rooms in chat and this is how you repay me, branding me as a traitor and a spy. As far as I am concerned you can just ban me permanently because there is no way in hell I will ever go back to your rooms. You claim you and your rooms are under attack and have to take precautions. Well get ready for a harsh dose of reality! The ONLY attack I see going on is that you and the senior mods are so paranoid and delusional that you are attacking, accusing, and running off the very people that support you and your rooms. Perhaps when you people get your heads out of each others asses and smell the coffee you might save the rooms but at this point I seriously doubt it. Chat is supposed to be fun and relaxing and friends sharing moments, making memories! Your rooms are a joke ran by pathetic, delusional, childish, and paranoid jackasses that have nothing better to do than running around forming lynch mobs and hanging the innocent. YOU and your lynch mob enjoy the rooms while they last because the only ones causing harm to your room are yourselves and no one else.****
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This is the third part. Note the obvious lie about Supers honesty. They were fully aware before the last email was written that the alledged transgression was done by someone else. That person told them so!!!! This is an obvious attempt to assauge supers anger. NOTE: This concilatroy email was sent shortly after I started this blog,,,coincidence? ****** It has only been recently that it has come to our attention and to****** that you were being totally honest and did nothing wrong. You have my and ****** deepest apologizies, I am so sorry for what happened!! It looked so bad for you, from our side, and someone, somehow, your profile entered the room, and less than an hour later, the chat from that particular senior mod meeting was splattered all over the threads. Please forgive us! Thanks for your dedication and support. ( my note:it usually gets you abused though)Your ban to both rooms has been lifted, if you care to visit us again. Our deepest apologizes, ******and ******
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While we are waiting for PART 4. Saw this series of posts. Discussing a very popular lady in DG. Seems there is some concern and discussion about banning her for "bashing" the room. It should be noted that Senior Moderator 2 has always been a bit "concerned" that this lady gets alot of attention Provided to show more of the real opinions and motivations behind the scenes. Moderator,,,,, 1/4/2013 10:37 am,,,, Question - **** says stuff like this constantly ******** (F) ***..be cautios,chance of getting banned is more if any one talking to me [10:29 AM EST] Is this bannable for room drama? I did tell her in the room that that is not at all true - that we ban for rule violations.(my note: Really?) Senior Moderator 1,, replies on 1/4/2013 5:10 pm: ok looking at the Passion chatroom rules it is pushing it but think this would apply Harassing, threatening, degrading, intimidating, victimizing, or other wise abusing an individual or group. not sure how far you could push the degrading and victimising the room/group ( My note: fishing for a reason to ban)so would ask other senior mods to comment if this would be pushing it to far Senior Moderator 2 replies on 1/5/2013 10:36 pm: Moderator 1, agreed next SR Mod meeting should go over it with *** and see how he feels. I think she is really borderline all the time, never enough to get banned just right on the line. Senior Moderator 3 , 1/4/2013 5:47 pm,,,,,What was said to *** that she made that remark? She does tweek us a lot and i put up with it because if i banned for everything that made me miffed the room would be empty all the time..lol Moderator,,replies on 1/4/2013 11:32 pm: Someone was asking her to play and she said she didn't play in this room so he asked her where. She said told him that mentioning other rooms gets you banned. ( my note; she is complying with room rules)Then he asked if she'd give him a hint so i warned him that he was bordering on breaking the rule of pulling from the room. That's when she made the comment above. But it's not the first time i have seen her make similar comments. And yes I agree that if we banned all of the people who annoy us we wouldn't have many left I guess i just wondered if we just let **** keep bashing us and the room since she is technically not breaking any rules.
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Well, it continues. The lady in the above post was banned. A member with 2 years of room membership , and very popular with room members . It seems that interpretation of rules is very elastic. Must have been a rubber stamp of the Senior Moderators room. Be nice to the moderators, Tow the line or your “outta there? Moderator,,,, 1/9/2013 11:51 am,,,, Banned anna harbor for disrespect anna_harbor (23F) should I paste your query here ***??? [11:19 AM EST] This was after she asked if i'd had an answer to my query. I asked what query and she said the one i posted about her. The only post i have made about her is the one above. I realize she will be back because she always is but i do not feel it necessary to just accept her abuse. Senior Moderator,,, 1/9/2013 12:12 pm,,,, Banned anna_harbor repeatedly mod bashing enough is enough dont need the repeated room drama caused when she does
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Here is a ban I did on a guy that kept harassing a lady in DG and would not take no for an answer. The goal was to keep the room a friendly place for the ladies and guys. After I was banned, a Senior Moderator and owner of the sister room went back through and unbanned some of the folks. Note her comment,, “Lots of guys are persistent”. Shows,, vengeance (against me)was much more important to her than actually taking care of the ladies. (If the ban was "bad” she had almost a month to correct it, but waited until I was banned).Again shows her complete lack of common sense and judgement (see above posts of a similar nature) pal334 8/24/2012 8:31 am Banned: ****** M *** refused him twice and he persisted ****** (18F) i said no [ 7:58 AM EDT] SENIOR MODERATOR,,, replies on 10/19/2012 10:44 pm: Unbanned: She refused him twice but was never warned by a Mod?[/B](my note,, she is unable to read apparently, the lady refused twice) Lots of guys are persistant lol (my note..She seems to think it is funny also)
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One of the Mods that posted the ban of Anna, also tried to sucker me into posting something incriminating. Here is the email sent to me a couple days after I started this blog.. Seems to be a very loyal Moderator I will post the thread that this person started 3 days after this email in a couple days. Shows what the roomies are dealing with, duplicity and dishonesty. Email from Moderator,,,,, Nov 28, 2012 5:07 PM EST Hi. I know we do not know each other very well, but you were always very kind to me in DG. I have just read your blog post about being banned. I have also read PSMs and just so you know I was there when she was banned and let's just say that at least in her case there are always two sides to the story. It may not be quite as cut and dry as she depicts. That being said, I do have a lot of respect for you, and reading your blog has given me some concerns, especially since i am now a mod in both rooms. I had some hesitations because in all honesty i once had some not so great dealings with *** a while back when I had my own room. But I thought perhaps he had matured. Maybe not. Anyway, guess I just wanted to know if i have made a huge mistake. Thanks
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My response to her email Thank ypu fot thr kind words. Take what I am going to say as coming from a guy who feels he was betrayed. Both of them, have lied and lead me on and then for some reason she felt "threatened" by both me and Superstud (for what reason, I do not know, neither of us are like that). I have the conversations cut and pasted, so they can not lie their way out of this. If they lean on me , I will start dribbling them out to prove what they are. If you are asking my opinion, be very careful, they have actually threatened one of their oldest and "best: Friends in the rooms. I will soon be posting the bans from Best of people that they banned for speaking out about mine and Supers bans. I thought I was trying to do my best when I was a Mod, but apparently did not fit their new vision of what DG should be. I never had any dealing with KR , so know nothing about it. The membership numbers for DG are tumbling, and the reputation is suffering for the way it is being run now. So in closing, I just suggest , watch your back.
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