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Sex: Dispelling Some Myths
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Sex: Dispelling Some Myths Thanks to porn, sex hook-up sites and 'urban myths', sexual misinformation can abound. Here's some factual information that may surprise you.  Women Get Erections Too Women actually get erections in their genitals and even though they’re smaller than the male counterpart, they are just as important, says Sadie Allison, DHS, a sexologist, founder of Tickle Kitty and author of Tickle His Pickle–Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. “The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused,” she explains. “You can observe this—just look at your clitoris or touch it when you’re aroused and it will be bigger.”  A Headache Doesn't Lessen Everyone's Mood Contrary to the popular cliché, “Not tonight, I have a headache,” one study found that not all headache sufferers avoid sexual activity. In fact, migraine sufferers reported higher levels of sexual desire according to the research done by the Wake Forest University School of Medicine and colleagues. Why? “Our study suggests that sexual desire and migraine headaches may be influenced by the same brain chemical,” said Timothy Houle, Ph.D., lead author and research assistant professor of anesthesiology.  The Clitoris Is Way Bigger Than You Think It Is In addition to the part of the clitoris you can see, there’s a much larger part—called the clitoral urethral vaginal complex—underneath the skin that also engorges with arousal, says Stella Harris, certified intimacy educator and sex coach and author of Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships. When a woman is aroused, the vaginal canal also lengthens as the uterus is pulled further upward into the body, the angle often changing as well. “Not only is this fascinating, but it’s one of the reasons that waiting for full arousal means having more pleasurable sex; sex is best when your body is ready,” she says.  The G spot Exists. Except It Doesn’t. “G spot is a misnomer, as what we consider the ‘spot’ isn’t a discrete anatomical entity. Instead, it’s an area of the urethral sponge that is highly sensitive for many people. But bodies and arousal are complex, and there’s no sure-fire technique, or even erogenous zone, that works for everyone. So basically you may have a spot you identify as the G spot—but it isn’t a spot and it won’t work the same for every woman  A Big Penis Won’t “stretch out” A Vagina A weirdly popular myth is that having too much sex or having sex with a large partner or toy can stretch out a woman’s vagina and/or labia. The vaginal canal is a muscle and does not permanently stretch from having accommodated a large penis or toy. The vagina is incredibly resilient and bounces back quickly. Also, the shape and size of the labia are unique to each woman and are not indicative of her sexual status or history  Penis Girth Is More Important Than Length Many men like to compare the length of their penises but the only people who really care about that number are… other men. The vagina mainly is covered in stretch mechanoreceptors, which means that girth (or width) is a more important aspect of the penis for women, on average,” explains Nicole Prause, PhD, a sexual physiology researcher at the University of California, Los Angeles, and licensed psychologist.  More Thrusting Does Not Equal More Fun Forget what you see in porn, “pounding”, or fast, hard thrusting, doesn’t turn most women on and it can actually cause pain and injury. The most common place women experience pain during sex is in the vulvar vestibule, just under the opening to the vagina, where a thin skin stretches underneath the opening that is very vulnerable to abrasion and tearing. This is why generally women do not benefit from (or want) prolonged ‘pounding,’ which just drags the penis repeatedly across this area, creating painful friction fairly quickly.  A Cucumber Is Not A Sex Toy Silicone, steel, Pyrex, glass, or specially laminated wood are the only materials that are actually safe for use inside your body. Toys made with vinyl, latex or a combination of these with other plastics (for example, a silicone-jelly mix) are not considered to be safe for skin contact and should only be used with a condom.  Yes, You Can Break A Penis Getting a penile fracture is a real thing that can and does happen. It’s relatively rare but it’s worth talking about as there are things you can do to protect against this injury. The highest risk of fractures to the penis occurs when the couple changes position while the erect penis is still inside the vagina. If you are interested in changing position, fully withdraw the penis from the vagina first. Extremely aggressive pumping can also sometimes lead to a penis fracture. *Update: Everyone knows a penis doesn’t have any bones. According to the Mayo Clinic: a penis fracture can occur when there is trauma to an erect penis. During an erection, the penis is engorged with blood. If an engorged penis is bent suddenly or forcefully, the trauma can rupture the lining of one of the two cylinders in the penis (corpus cavernosum) responsible for erections — resulting in a penis fracture. The trauma most often occurs after accidental injury during intercourse, but can also occur due to aggressive masturbation or taqaandan, a cultural practice in which the top of an erect penis is forcefully bent.  Sex Can Be Enjoyed Without Having An Orgasm “The idea that sex must lead to orgasm can be a very damaging thought for people of all genders and sexualities as it puts undue pressure on them and can cause anxiety—the two enemies of sexual pleasure,” says Melissa Coats, a licensed professional counsellor specializing in sex therapy. “Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm.” Taking the pressure off yourself to always climax can lead to a more relaxed and positive experience. Any 'facts' you would like to share or myths you would like to dispel? ? Did you learn something new? |
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I didn't know a penis fracture was a real thing!
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What a great read here this morning hun thank you for always sharing such useful information and this was an important blog to share. I hope you weekend is going well hun and your getting to have some fun.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I learned some things that I didn't know... 🤔 That clitoris thingy you have.... seems fascinating.. 😘 Does yours look like that one in that pic? Do you offer personal consultations? 📞 It's almost as if this is déjà vu. It's as if you and I have already spoken about these things before. You know what I mean? 😊 Scary.. Do you believe in déjà vu? So.. whatcha up to today? Feel like coming over? I'm serving a pork roast... sweet potatoes .. call... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Thank you 🙏. You know I like to post about a variety of topics. Did you know a man could break /8 his penis? Hope the rains and flooding aren’t in your area and that you have a great weekend.
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That selfie you took and posted here.. very.. very hot! 🔥🔥🔥 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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3/2/2019 10:04 am |
Wow, thanks for all that info, very interesting
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3/2/2019 10:05 am |
Familiar with some of what you have provided, however not certain about any bone structure within the penis. More discovery would be suggested. Informative!
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Ugh, broken penis xrays just give me the shivers. 
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I learned a few new things today, thanks.
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Very informative info! 56 years old and still leaning! Thanxxx for posting!
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Familiar with some of what you have provided, however not certain about any bone structure within the penis. More discovery would be suggested. Informative!
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Ugh, broken penis xrays just give me the shivers.
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Agreed. Access to information has pros and cons. The proliferation of wrong information based on porn never ends. Thanks 🙏 for stopping by. You are welcome anytime.
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I learned a few new things today, thanks.
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Very informative info! 56 years old and still leaning! Thanxxx for posting!
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3/2/2019 10:27 am |
The closest I came to penis fracturing was when women are on top "pounding" me. I've had sex without orgasm, it happened quite often with a few selfish women in Austin I once ran with, and in the after hours the feeling is exactly the same as if I did, but I really didn't, and I really wish had. Another interesting thing I found, with a group of generous women in San Antonio: After 4 days of sex, sex, and more sex, with orgasms I might add, urinating felt just like an orgasm.
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The closest I came to penis fracturing was when women are on top "pounding" me. I've had sex without orgasm, it happened quite often with a few selfish women in Austin I once ran with, and in the after hours the feeling is exactly the same as if I did, but I really didn't, and I really wish had. Another interesting thing I found, with a group of generous women in San Antonio: After 4 days of sex, sex, and more sex, with orgasms I might add, urinating felt just like an orgasm.
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That selfie you took and posted here.. very.. very hot! 🔥🔥🔥
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I learned some things that I didn't know... 🤔 That clitoris thingy you have.... seems fascinating.. 😘 Does yours look like that one in that pic? Do you offer personal consultations? 📞 It's almost as if this is déjà vu. It's as if you and I have already spoken about these things before. You know what I mean? 😊 Scary.. Do you believe in déjà vu? So.. whatcha up to today? Feel like coming over? I'm serving a pork roast... sweet potatoes .. call...
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Great information!!! I, normally, don’t orgasm with partners. But that’s ok. I like the fucking!! I need a really great kiss!!
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Glad to be of service lol. Thanks for stopping by.
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Deserving? lol... Are you deserving of mine? 😘🤔 Yes I am... and so are you. You know that. ❤️ Are we alone? Lean toward me and I'll remind you again... 😊 Let me whisper, what we should do... I think, you'll like my plans... 🤗 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Great information!!! I, normally, don’t orgasm with partners. But that’s ok. I like the fucking!!
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Wow, thanks for all that info, very interesting
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Yes indeed it’s a real thing /8 and thankfully, rarely happens. Thanks for stopping by.
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