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Blogs > pinkdragonfly21 > I see the secrets u don't show

How do you deal with a relationship on borrowed time ?  

pinkdragonfly21 42F  
131 posts
2/23/2015 5:12 am
How do you deal with a relationship on borrowed time ?

I'm crazy into my current bf. I mean literally out of my mind into this man. It's not just the sex, it's ok, not the best I've ever have and he's been blessed with a very large dick, but there's something else about him. Maybe it's because we have such different lives, a different past, that he maybe seems more exciting to me. He tells me he hates being touched when he's falling asleep, but won't let me let go and he hugs me all night. I'm not used to that, I like my own space, something he claims to enjoy as well, however, every morning we wake up tangled in each other. I enjoy the hours we spend talking on the phone or FaceTime when we aren't together. I like that he gives me all his attention all of the time. I like that it hurts him when I talk to other men. If you've read my recent posts, he's the one I've been talking about. The one with the wife and baby in Taiwan, the one I'm going to have to say goodbye to. I didn't choose to hook up with a married man, I'm not a home wrecker and she left him and went to Taiwan, nobody knew if she was coming back, but it looks like she might and I'm not sure how to say goodbye to him. I feel guilty, being with him, but what woman walks out on her husband and leaves the country 2 days after getting married ? Sorry, but if it was me, I wouldn't leave

lookin4funinBC9 64M
1386 posts
2/23/2015 5:27 am

 Things happen, Just enjoy and see what happens


botboy5569 58M
233 posts
2/23/2015 5:58 am

 to much drama for me. good luck with this one you need to make your own choice


pinkdragonfly21 42F  
61 posts
2/23/2015 6:07 am

 I'm just enjoying whatever time we have together


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
2/23/2015 6:33 am

 well its your choice...but there seems to be a few flags and one big alarm bell going off...."I like that it hurts him when I talk to other men" ...maybe there is a blog that puts that line in context, but omg....this is not emotionally healthy for either side....and the classic twist that he is stoking the home fires, but limiting you from a relationship where all your needs are fully met.


pinkdragonfly21 replies on 2/24/2015 5:33 am:
Quite true, it's not healthy at all. I guess that's why I'm keeping my options open. He and I talk about it all the time. His expectations that I'll be faithful to him, when he is in fact already married to another woman (regardless of whether it is just on paper and for immigration etc) means he has no right to be making demands on my personal life. I'm the one missing out whilst he's having his cake and eating it too. I have every right to be friends with members of the opposite sex, I've even got the right to date if I want to. He seems to think that he is the only man entitled to my attention, that I should sit patiently waiting for him to give me attention, well I'm not that girl.

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